I’ve been a bit silent over the last month as we’ve had family in and out of town and everything that comes with the holidays. What better way to kick off the new year than Male Chastity Day? Male Chastity is a trend that is growing in popularity as a reminder of the negative effect that selfish masturbation can have on your relationship.
Tis the time of year when we lock our fellas up and keep them locked until the sweet release of St. Valentine’s Day. Orgasm denial helps remind us about the power that the male orgasm plays in the overall dynamic and psychology of our relationships.
How is this different than locktober? It really isn’t but this gives us another chance to dust off the cage and slap it on your guy for a month of foot rubs, compliments, conversation, breakfast in bed and overall thoughtfulness.
New to chastity and not quite sure about it? You’ve come to the right place! Chastity is about evening the playing field of our relationships to make sure that everyone’s needs are being met. Just remember that it is all about having fun and improving the quality of the connection with your partner. Click around the site and see if a chastity experiment is right for your relationship this January 14th …until whenever you decide to unlock him.
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Will you and Kevin be participating? If so, will your experience during Locktober inform how you approach this month?
Yep! We are going to stay 24/7 locked from Jan 14th until Valentines! He really struggles after the first week since his body has grown accustomed to that period of time.
Wish him luck by clicking the lock below! 🙂
So after this and Locktober how does Kevin feel about a month long confinement? Was Chastity Day easier or just as hard as Locktober? Has it lead to any permanent changes in your chastity practices?
We don’t do month long confinement much. Kevin has confided that it makes him feel resentful and gives him too much time to dwell on the lockup. We try to keep our lockup periods to 1 week for the most part. Two weeks from time to time. If anything, the month long lockups make us realize how perfect the weeklong periods are for our relationship at the moment. That could change over time and we will absolutely be participating in locktober and chastity day in the future. Every once in a while doesn’t hurt us one bit and is a great reminder.
Hoping for 2022 and the right Lady