The Search for a Bull: Find Me Someone to Cuck You With

Hi there friends! Today, let’s dive into an exciting and tantalizing topic—the journey of finding the perfect bull for my cuckold relationship with my husband, Kev. This isn’t just about adding a new partner; it’s about exploring the depths of our dynamic, embracing submission, and discovering how fulfilling this act of service can be.

Cuckolding has become an exciting exploration for Kev and me, adding a thrilling dynamic to our relationship that we enjoy from time to time to bring newness and a sense of sexual adventure. However, the journey to find a bull has proven to be challenging. The hunt can be exhausting, especially when we sift through countless one-word responses or messages without pictures that leave me feeling demotivated. We know that for this fantasy to come to life, we need to find someone who meets our criteria and fits into whatever dynamic we are seeking. Since navigating through these less than perfect suitors is tedious and I simply give up most of the time, a little bit of loving support is a task that I can easily delegate to my favorite cuck and it makes all the difference.

The Journey Begins

Finding a bull for me is not just an errand for Kev; it’s an intimate adventure that requires trust, communication, and a sprinkle of vulnerability. As his wife, I want him to feel excited about this journey, and I want him to embrace the act of service that comes with it. For us, it’s an opportunity to deepen our bond while he submits to my desires.

The first step is defining what I’m looking for. I have a few key attributes in mind that would make the ideal bull—a confident, masculine presence who knows how to engage with both of us. But this is also about understanding Kev’s feelings. He needs to feel comfortable and secure in this arrangement, knowing that his dominance and Kev’s submission is an integral part of the experience.

Exploring Expectations

Let’s be real: expectations play a massive role in our search. As we talk through what we both want, I’ll share with Kev that I’m looking for someone who can not only turn me on but also enhance his experience. It’s about balance and safety—he needs to feel a thrill, while I want to ensure that his place as my husband is respected.

We’ve talked about the kind of emotional intelligence I’m looking for in a bull. He should understand the dynamics of our relationship and navigate them with respect and care. It’s not just about physical attraction; it’s about a connection that respects the trust we have in one another. The ideal bull should be confident and charismatic, but he should also be aware of the emotions at play.

Crafting the Perfect Ad

After we’ve laid the groundwork for what we’re looking for, it’s time to create a personal ad that reflects our desires. This is where Kev’s act of service truly shines! He’ll be the one putting himself out there, essentially playing matchmaker for my pleasure. In this ad, he’ll highlight the kind of man I want, capturing the essence of what would make a perfect bull for me.

When writing the ad, I want Kev to infuse it with excitement and a touch of flirtation. Something like:

“Tall, Dark, and Handsome Bull Wanted!”
Seeking a confident bull who stands at least 6′ with a minimum of 8 inches to fill my wife’s desires while I watch in submission. If you love the thrill of cuckoldry and enjoy a fun, playful vibe, let’s connect!

“Cuckold in Training!”
Looking for a seasoned bull (6′ or taller, 8+ inches) to teach my eager cuck how to please me! He’ll watch, learn, and take notes while I indulge in your talents. Must have a patient demeanor and be willing to show off your skills.

“The Great Cuckold Hunt!”
Help us find the perfect bull! We’re seeking a fun, adventurous guy (6’ or taller, 8+ inches) to spice up our bedroom while I wear a playful smirk and my husband squirms with excitement. Must be open to one-off or regular sessions. If you have a good sense of humor, be comfortable bantering with a husband and wife before you take control in the bedroom if the vibe is right.

“Cuckold Adventure Awaits!”
Seeking a confident bull, 6’ or taller, 8 inches minimum, who can sweep me off my feet while my husband looks on. Must be adventurous, open to exploring different scenarios—think romantic dinners followed by passionate encounters while my husband watches from the sidelines.

“The Ultimate Cuckold Experience!”
Are you a tall, confident man (6′ and above, 8+ inches) looking for some fun? I’m ready for you to take control while my husband watches and learns how to truly please a woman. We are eager to find someone who can make this a memorable experience for all. Must enjoy teasing my husband, open to bisexual play at my instruction and embracing the cuckold dynamic!

“Cuckold Connoisseur!”
Attention all bulls: if you’re 6’ or taller with a solid 8+ inches and love indulging in the sport of cuckolding, I want you! My husband (5’9″) will be cheering from the sidelines, making it a thrilling experience for all of us. Must be confident, charming, and ready for playful banter!

This playful tone sets the stage for potential bulls to respond in a way that matches our energy and openness. The ad should also spell out any very detailed deal breakers or requirements. In our case, there is a height requirement, a preferred size and a preference that we meet for vibe check and we host if we decide to move forward.

Sifting Through Responses

As responses start pouring in (and they do!), Kev takes the lead in sifting through them. This is a critical part of the process, and it’s where his commitment to the act of service truly comes into play. He’s not just looking for any man; he’s on a mission to find someone who meets my criteria while also aligning with our dynamic.

While reviewing the responses, I want Kev to pay close attention to the candidates’ communication styles and how they express their interest. I want to see him evaluate their confidence and ability to engage with both of us. Is there a playful vibe? Do they respect our boundaries? I want him to feel empowered to weed out those who don’t quite fit the bill. Ultimately one of the men he selects will be having sex with his wife while he watches and the knowledge that he hand picked that man is thoroughly exciting.

Presenting the Candidates

Once Kev has narrowed down the field, it’s time for him to share his top picks with me. This part of the process should feel like a thrilling reveal, with Kev excited to show off his efforts. As he presents each candidate, I want to hear about why he thinks they would be a great match for me.

He might say something like, “Babe, I found this guy who’s not only super fit but has the confidence that really shines through in his messages. I can totally see you two hitting it off!” This is where his submission becomes apparent—he’s willing to compare himself to these men, recognizing their appeal while expressing and acknowledging the features that will make him eager to submit to them.

When Kev finds a man to cuck me with, it’s always an exciting step in our dynamic. The first thing I do is start a group text chain between the three of us. It’s a fun way to get the conversation going and feel out the chemistry. I like it when Kev and the other guy hit it off, but only to a certain extent. If they get too friendly or the focus shifts too much toward their budding bromance, I have to reel it back in. Sometimes, I’ll just send a pic to remind them both that this is all about me. A simple, “Ok fellas, this is about me,” with a teasing pic usually does the trick!

The whole point of this arrangement is the dynamic between the three of us—I’m the centerpiece, and both of them should be focusing on that. If they’re too wrapped up in each other, it starts to feel less exciting for me, and honestly, I may lose interest. I don’t mind if they’re friends outside the bedroom—that’s completely fine and even encouraged. But inside this dynamic, the spotlight has to stay on me.

It’s such an interesting balance to gauge, and honestly, it’s a lot of fun. I love flirting with someone new, sending spicy pics in the group chat, and knowing that Kev is watching the whole thing unfold. Sometimes, the comments flying back and forth are the best part! Especially when I send a pic and can see Kev’s reaction from across the room when I tease him with something like, “That’s much bigger than what I’m used to at home.” It always gets the best response, making it even more thrilling for me to know Kev is right there, witnessing it all.

It’s so key for this to be something we do together, not separately. The whole point of our dynamic is to bring us closer through these experiences, to feel that shared excitement and compersion, not to drift apart or feel like we’re in separate worlds. When we’re both engaged—whether it’s through a group chat, flirting, or Kev watching me with someone else—it deepens our bond. We get to experience the highs and thrills as a team, with each of us playing our part and being fully present for one another. It’s that connection, that sense of “we’re in this together,” that makes the dynamic so fulfilling. The goal is to grow stronger, more intimate, and more connected through these experiences, not to let them pull us in different directions.

The Surrender to the Experience

Throughout this entire process, it’s crucial for Kev to embrace the act of surrender. It’s about him recognizing his place in this dynamic, understanding that finding a bull for me isn’t just a task—it’s an expression of love and service. The more he submits to this idea, the more thrilling the experience becomes for both of us. Despite the sense of togetherness, cuckolding isn’t something I do with Kev—it’s something I do to him. There’s a distinct power dynamic at play where I’m in control, and he’s on the receiving end of that control. The thrill for both of us comes from that imbalance. While we share the experience emotionally and enjoy the compersion, the physical and psychological aspects are about my dominance and his submission. It’s an act of erotic humiliation and teasing that I’m doing for my pleasure, knowing how it affects him. I’m the one ultimately selecting the partner, setting the tone, and orchestrating the experience, while Kev is left to watch, yearn, and savor the feelings of denial and powerlessness. That shift in control is what makes cuckolding so electrifying for both of us—it’s not a shared act in the traditional sense; it’s me asserting my dominance over him.

For Kev, this means acknowledging his feelings of jealousy while also finding excitement in the thoughts of compersion of me being with another man. It’s about feeling secure enough in our relationship to know that his cuckold submission will only enhance our connection. The thrill of watching me with someone else can elevate his own feelings of desire, bringing us closer together.

It’s About Me, Not You

Cuckolding is not about Kev telling me who to fuck or when to do it. I’m not his plaything, nor am I some sex doll for him to live out his fantasies through. The beauty of this dynamic lies in my empowerment and autonomy—I choose who I want, when I want, and how it happens. If your partner is trying to coerce you into something you’re not comfortable with, it’s important to stop and have a long, hard conversation about the dynamic. Cuckolding is built on mutual trust and respect, not manipulation or pressure. The moment someone starts pushing boundaries that you aren’t okay with, it’s time to reassess.

Topping from the bottom is a huge red flag in this dynamic, and it’s both manipulative and demeaning. If your partner is trying to steer the experience to fulfill their own fantasies, they’re undermining your role and power. This is supposed to be about your control, your choices, and your pleasure. Anything else dilutes the whole point of cuckolding and turns it into something unhealthy. Always remember that this is about you—the woman—embracing your desires and owning your sexual freedom, not about fulfilling someone else’s script or fantasy at the cost of your own.

Asking For It

Cuckolding is something you do to your partner, not with your partner and this also means you initiate it when it strikes your fancy, not when he decides. When you tell him what you want, be flirty, direct and even humiliating in line with your sexual dynamic. If you want dick this weekend, tell him exactly what you are looking for in no uncertain terms. Here are a couple fun and playful examples to get you started:

• Babe, your little cock isn’t quite doing it for me. Do you think you can find someone to take care of me this weekend?
• Why don’t you put your cage on and go to work finding someone to fuck me Friday night. You better hurry and get started, I’ll only unlock you after I get fucked properly.
• Hey love. I’m in the mood for something big. Think you can help me find it, babe?
• I need to feel a man inside me when we go out Friday and you know what that means; start looking!
• Babe, I need to be filled this weekend, and we both know you can’t do it. Will you be a dear and find me someone who can?
• Why don’t you be a good cuck and find me a man to take care of me Friday?
• You know what would make me happy Friday night? You finding a real man to fuck me. Can you do that for me?
• I have a job for you. Find me some dick for Friday night? You know what I like, don’t you babe?
• Sweetie, I’ve been craving some real satisfaction. Will you go find me a bull who can handle me properly?

You get the idea, be fun, flirty, and direct about what you want. Put your cuck to task and start finding a bull who checks all of your boxes. Make sure your hubby gets lots of praise and positive reinforcement through the process and he you can rest assured that he won’t disappoint.

The Bull Hunt

The journey of finding a bull is not just about introducing another partner into our relationship; it’s about strengthening our bond through trust, communication, and a shared exploration of desires. For Kev, the act of service in finding the right bull is a beautiful way to express his understanding of my wishes and accepting submission while enhancing my pleasure.

As we dig deeper into the cuckolding lifestyle, we’ve attached meaning to some things, removed meaning from others and learned more about what we both get from these experiences. We’ve also realized that finding quality bulls is a lot harder than we anticipated—so we go into it ready for a bit of disappointment, but we’re hopeful! Be quick to see red flags in conversations with bulls, it is much easier to abort an experience before it even begins or during a meet and greet than after it has begun.

Being clear about expectations, boundaries and logistics is key to a successful encounter that will bring excitement into our lives. While the search can be a bit daunting, off loading the bulk of the work on Kev will help keep it exciting and gives me a bit of alone time if I want to task him with a bull search that might result in us creating a memorable sexual adventure together!

So, to all the husbands out there considering this journey—embrace the process! Dive into the adventure of finding the perfect bull for your wife. This isn’t about what you want, this is about understanding her needs and desires. Seek understanding, celebrate the submission, revel in the excitement, and enjoy every moment of this thrilling exploration together. Happy hunting!