Hey ladies, let’s talk about something that hits close to home—turning your open relationship into something more structured, where you’re firmly in control. Whether you’re just starting to explore or already well-versed in the world of open relationships, there’s something incredibly empowering about shifting into a female-led dynamic. And trust me, it’s not just about gaining control; it’s about building a healthier, more connected relationship—on your terms. So, let’s dive into how you can turn your open relationship into a cuckold dynamic that gives you freedom while he hands over his autonomy.
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Exploring open relationships can be an exciting way for couples to reignite the spark that may have dimmed over time. For some, it’s a way to break free from the monotony of routine and add new layers of adventure and desire. This journey often begins with a mutual decision to explore together, perhaps with another couple, allowing both partners to experience something new while still remaining connected. The shared experiences of seeing each other in different dynamics can lead to deeper emotional intimacy, sparking new conversations and revelations about what excites them.
However, many couples choose to explore their open relationship separately, giving each person the freedom to pursue their own encounters. While this can start as an agreement of mutual exploration, it doesn’t always go as planned. One partner, often the female, may find herself thriving in the dating world, enjoying the attention and excitement that comes with new sexual experiences. Meanwhile, the male partner might struggle, feeling left behind or discouraged by his lack of success. The imbalance in these experiences can create unexpected feelings of jealousy or inadequacy, yet, paradoxically, it can also deepen the dynamic of the relationship.
For some men, the stories of their partner’s adventures become a source of excitement in themselves. Hearing about her success, her encounters, and her pleasure can shift their role from active participant to enthusiastic observer, bringing in elements of voyeurism or even cuckoldry. Instead of feeling disheartened, some men relish the idea of their partner’s experiences and find renewed intimacy in being on the receiving end of these stories. This shift, although unplanned, can transform the dynamic of the relationship, offering new ways to connect and bring back the excitement they both craved in the beginning.
Why Close His Side of the Relationship?
Before we get into the “how,” let’s talk about the “why.” You might wonder, “Why not just keep it open for both of us?” Well, here’s the deal: closing his side of the relationship shifts his role into a supportive female leadership dynamic with an emphasis on your pleasure. When he’s not out there chasing other women, his energy, focus, and devotion are solely on you. This doesn’t just make you the center of his world; it also builds the foundation for a true female-led relationship. Here are some solid reasons why closing his side of the relationship can work wonders:
Closing off his side of the relationship can provide a sense of relief and security for a man who may struggle to keep up with the pace of an open dynamic. The pressure to find a partner can be overwhelming, especially if one partner is thriving while the other feels left behind. By taking away this pressure, you create a space where he can focus on the connection he has with you, free from the stress of trying to measure up. This shift can make him feel more valued, wanted, and secure, knowing that his role in your relationship is cherished just as it is. It’s similar to the practice of male chastity, where the man’s desire is focused entirely on you, and he finds comfort in your control and guidance.
In a female-led relationship, this dynamic truly flourishes. Men often thrive under the leadership of a powerful and confident woman, where the boundaries are clearly defined, and their submission becomes a source of emotional safety. With your support, he can let go of the external pressures and instead concentrate on nurturing the bond you share. It’s a unique form of intimacy where your guidance gives him the freedom to fully embrace his role, knowing that his worth is not tied to outside validation but to the strength of your connection. This nurturing, yet authoritative energy, can lead to deeper trust and a relationship where both partners feel fulfilled in their roles.
Changing any relationship dynamic can be a transformative experience when approached through open and loving communication. It begins with a heartfelt conversation where both partners openly express their needs, desires, and any feelings of disconnection that may have arisen during their exploration. This dialogue focuses on which emotional and physical needs are currently being met and which ones feel neglected, allowing both partners to reflect on their experiences. Rather than viewing the transition as a forcible change, it becomes a mutual decision grounded in care and understanding, aimed at enhancing the relationship and the emotional bond. By acknowledging each other’s vulnerabilities and affirming their commitment to one another, the couple can work together to create a stronger, more fulfilling relationship that prioritizes their shared intimacy and connection. This process not only reinforces trust but also deepens their understanding of each other’s needs, setting the stage for a richer and more satisfying partnership.
Reinforce Commitment
Emotional commitment is a cornerstone of emotional safety and security within a relationship for most women. Knowing that her partner is deeply committed, not only to her but also to the exclusivity of their emotional and sexual bond, allows her to feel grounded, supported, and confident in their connection. When his freedom to explore outside the relationship is restricted, it further reinforces that his focus is solely on her, which can heighten her sense of safety. This dedication shows that he values the relationship beyond fleeting desires and is willing to prioritize her needs and well-being. As a result, she can more easily open up emotionally, express her desires, and feel secure in exploring her own sexuality, knowing that his commitment to her is unwavering.
Restricting his freedom to explore also strengthens the emotional intimacy between them, as it reflects his respect, love, and loyalty. When a woman knows that her partner is fully present and invested, both emotionally and sexually, it gives her the freedom to be vulnerable and authentic in the relationship. This level of commitment, especially in an open dynamic where she may have the freedom to explore, reassures her that he values her above all others. The security in knowing that his role is solely centered around her deepens the emotional bond, making her feel even more cherished. It creates a nurturing environment where trust and emotional safety thrive, allowing both partners to flourish in their unique roles.
When you’re in an open relationship, his attention and priorities are divided, whether it’s his time, energy, or emotions. By closing his side, you are locking in his devotion, making him commit to you in a way that is deeply focused. It’s like saying, “I’m your queen, and you serve only me.” Who wouldn’t want that?
Sexual Dependence
For many men, their sexual needs are deeply intertwined with their sense of partnership in a relationship. When a man sees his sexual fulfillment as coming solely from you, it strengthens his emotional connection and reinforces his view of you as his primary source of pleasure, intimacy, and support. This sexual dependence becomes a powerful link between you, where he feels that his desires and needs are uniquely satisfied through your connection. The exclusivity of this bond not only heightens his desire but also deepens his sense of partnership, as his sexual reliance on you makes him more emotionally invested in the relationship. Your ability to meet his sexual needs creates a feedback loop of intimacy, trust, and emotional depth.
His sexual dependence on you is also key to the depth of his emotional attachment. By relying solely on you for sexual fulfillment, he is able to channel his focus entirely into the relationship, increasing his vulnerability and connection. The exclusivity of your sexual bond fuels his need for closeness, making him feel more dependent on the relationship for his emotional well-being. This dynamic elevates the significance of your connection, as his sexual satisfaction becomes intertwined with his feelings of love and commitment. It creates a powerful foundation for emotional intimacy, where the boundaries between physical and emotional needs blur, reinforcing the depth of the partnership you share.
Increased Emotional Intimacy
A one-sided open relationship, where the female is free to explore her sexuality while her partner remains focused on her, can actually increase intimacy within the relationship. By allowing him to experience her sexuality with her, he becomes a part of her journey rather than seeking fulfillment elsewhere. He gets the unique opportunity to witness her pleasure, excitement, and sexual fulfillment, which deepens his emotional connection to her. Instead of feeling left out, he becomes an active participant in her sexual adventures, even if it’s through listening, observing, or emotionally supporting her. This kind of involvement fosters a sense of closeness, where her sexual freedom is something shared rather than separate, enhancing the bond between them.
For women, sex is often deeply linked to relationship satisfaction and overall well-being. When a woman is given the freedom to explore her desires without restriction, it reinforces the emotional intimacy she shares with her partner. Her sexual fulfillment can be a source of joy for both partners, as it boosts her happiness and confidence, which in turn positively affects the relationship. Knowing that her partner supports and embraces her sexual expression builds trust and emotional depth, making the connection even stronger. The openness and honesty required in such a dynamic can foster greater communication, creating a more intimate and fulfilling relationship where both partners feel truly seen and understood.
By narrowing his focus to just you, it strengthens your emotional connection. When he isn’t expending energy on anyone else, that emotional availability all flows your way, allowing you to deepen your bond. Trust me, there’s a major difference between being one of his partners and being his only partner.
Control Over Your Dynamic
When he doesn’t have an escape route to other women, you hold the power to shape the relationship entirely. Whether it’s his behavior in the bedroom, daily chores, or how he prioritizes your happiness, you set the rules. It’s all about flipping the script and getting what you deserve out of your marriage.
Let’s not forget the sheer eroticism of cuckolding. When he knows you have the freedom to sleep with others, and he doesn’t, it fuels a sense of sexual frustration that, let’s be honest, can make things even spicier in the bedroom. His knowing that you have that power—while he’s restricted—will only amplify his desire and obsession with you.
Open Relationship Power Dynamics
When a relationship is open, it’s easy to feel like the power dynamic can shift away from you, especially if both partners are seeing other people. The freedom to explore other connections can dilute the focus on your needs, your desires, and your influence within the relationship. When your partner has the same level of sexual and emotional freedom as you do, the balance of power becomes more evenly distributed, making it harder for you to maintain the upper hand. This can lead to feelings of insecurity or frustration, as you might find yourself competing for attention or validation, even within the context of an open relationship.
Another major issue with an open dynamic is that it often takes away the sense of exclusivity that comes with being the primary focus of your partner’s energy. When he’s out pursuing other women, he’s diverting attention that could be centered on you, whether that’s emotional support, physical affection, or simply time spent together. This division of attention can weaken the intimate connection you share, leaving you feeling less valued or prioritized in the relationship. In an open setup, the power to influence or guide the relationship tends to dissipate, leaving both partners more independent and less interconnected.
On top of that, an open relationship can sometimes lead to a power struggle. While you might have initially agreed on mutual freedom, there’s always a risk that either partner might use that freedom to seek validation or dominance outside the relationship. This can create a sense of competition, not just for affection but also for control. You might find it harder to enforce boundaries or maintain authority when your partner has an outlet to meet their needs elsewhere, especially if they’re forming new emotional connections that make them feel more empowered.
Ultimately, when both partners are equally “open,” the opportunity for female power, control, or leadership can diminish. To regain that authority, it’s essential to reconsider the structure of the relationship. Shifting the dynamic to a more female-led or cuckold relationship, where the husband’s freedom is stifled, can help restore your sense of dominance. By closing his side of the relationship, you reaffirm your position at the center of his world, ensuring that his focus, energy, and devotion are directed solely toward you.
Transitioning to a Female-Led Relationship (FLR)
So, how do you make this transition? How do you go from sharing the reins to holding them all yourself, without making it seem like a negotiation? The key here is subtlety—he doesn’t need to feel like the rug is being pulled out from under him, but rather that the relationship is evolving naturally in the direction you want.
Start Subtly Shifting the Power Dynamic
This isn’t about making bold proclamations. It’s more about tweaking things here and there, so the dynamic starts to lean in your favor. Begin by assigning him more responsibilities around the house. Start making small, non-negotiable decisions, like where to go for dinner or how to spend your weekends. As you make these decisions, don’t ask for input
Example:
Instead of saying, “Do you want to clean the house this weekend?” say, “I’ve planned for you to clean the house tomorrow night to keep your mind occupied while I’m on my date.” He’ll become accustomed to you calling the shots in the relationship, and before long, he won’t even notice your guidance and support around minor life decisions. Your timing for him cleaning the house will be helpful for both of you because his mind will be occupied during a time that might otherwise be challenging for him emotionally.
Set Rules for His Behavior
In a female-led relationship, rules are essential. Not just for the power dynamic, but because structure is sexy. Establish some simple guidelines to reinforce that you’re in charge, like curfews, rules about communication, and how he speaks to you. Once the groundwork is laid, you can ramp it up to more explicit instructions, especially in the bedroom. Remember, the more restrictions you place on him, the more authority you claim for yourself.
Chastity is Your Best Friend
If you want to truly close the door on his side of the relationship, chastity is the way to go. By locking him up, you’re making it clear that your pleasure comes first, and his is under your control. This helps build sexual tension and makes the dynamic abundantly clear. If you’re comfortable, introduce a chastity cage or device into your relationship. Trust me, the results are mind-blowing. He’ll become more attentive, more devoted, and so much more focused on your needs.
Start by locking him up for short periods, a few hours and then gradually extend the time. Eventually you can work up to overnight in the cage. Those night-time erections can be solved with a quick potty break. Watch as his desire to please you grows with every passing day.
Take Control of His Finances
A real power move in a female-led relationship is to take over the finances. When you control the money, you’re essentially holding all the cards. Gradually shift towards handling the budgeting, giving him allowances, and making financial decisions without his input. Not only does this build trust, but it’s also a surefire way to reinforce that you are the leader.
Take over paying the bills, control how much spending money he gets, and make any large financial decisions on your own.
Switch to Pegging for Dominance
One of the ultimate power moves in a female-led relationship is pegging. It solidifies your dominance, puts you in control sexually, and pushes the cuckold dynamic even further. Pegging flips the script of traditional sexual roles, making it clear that you’re the one in charge in the bedroom. And believe me, there’s something incredibly intimate and bonding about being the one who penetrates him, both physically and emotionally.
Benefits of Female-Led Relationships for You
I’m sure by now you’re starting to see just how beneficial a female-led relationship can be for you, but let’s spell it out, shall we? A female-led relationship gives you the freedom to live on your terms. You make the decisions, set the boundaries, and define the dynamic. You’re not compromising; you’re leading. When you’re the one holding the reins, you have the freedom to explore your sexuality however you choose. Whether it’s cuckolding, polyamory, or casual flings, your sexual desires come first. And with him locked up in chastity, that freedom feels even more delicious. Taking control of the relationship naturally boosts your confidence. Knowing that you’re the one in charge, shaping the relationship to your liking, will make you feel empowered both inside and outside of the bedroom. Paradoxically, a female-led relationship often leads to a deeper connection. By taking control and setting the terms, you create a relationship built on trust, communication, and mutual understanding. He’s no longer out there seeking validation from others—his world revolves around you.
How to Introduce Cuckolding
Once you’ve laid the foundation for your female-led relationship, cuckolding may feel like a natural next step. Learn about cuckolding, discuss the dynamic openly and see if you want to explore together. If you’re not already exploring it, start with casual conversations about your fantasies. Ease into it by sharing what turns you on, and let him know that you expect to have the freedom to sleep with other men.
Cuckolding, at its core, is about celebrating your sexuality and embracing the full spectrum of who you are as a sexual being. It allows you to express your desires openly, knowing that your partner is not only supportive but also deeply invested in your pleasure. Together, you both get to relish in your sexuality—he experiences the thrill of seeing you fulfilled, and you enjoy the freedom to explore new dimensions of your desires. Rather than something that drives you apart, cuckolding can actually bring you closer, as you’re both actively engaged in the shared excitement of your sexual journey.
For many men, there’s a profound sense of relationship satisfaction in knowing that their wife is sexually fulfilled both in and out of the bedroom. Cuckolding takes that satisfaction to the next level by ensuring that he remains an integral part of your sexual experiences, even if he’s not directly involved in the physical act. His role in the dynamic can range from being an enthusiastic observer to helping facilitate the experience, allowing him to participate emotionally and psychologically in ways that can heighten intimacy between you. This involvement reinforces the bond you share, turning cuckolding into a powerful tool for connection, communication, and trust in your relationship.
Steps to Transition into Cuckolding:
Discuss Fantasies: Start talking openly about your sexual fantasies, especially those involving other men. Gauge his reaction and reassure him that his role as your partner won’t change.
Set Expectations: Make it clear that you will be sleeping with other men, but his side of the relationship is now closed. This dynamic will revolve around you having the freedom, while he remains devoted solely to you.
Control the Details: When you do begin seeing other men, control the narrative. Let him know what you want him to know, but don’t ask for his permission. This is about your freedom, not his.
Transition His Arousal
Transitioning his arousal and pleasure from focusing on individual desires to shared pleasure with you is a delicate, yet incredibly rewarding process. It starts by shifting the narrative around pleasure itself. He needs to understand that the greatest satisfaction he can experience comes from pleasing you, rather than seeking out his own individual gratification. To do this, you can begin by slowly rewiring his focus toward your needs and making it clear that his pleasure is intricately tied to yours. Whether it’s through small acts of service, intimate moments, or even day-to-day decisions, let him experience the joy of fulfilling your desires and see how much more fulfilling that feels compared to his solo pursuits.
One way to foster this shift is to introduce a reward-based system where his pleasure is directly linked to your satisfaction. For example, allow him to enjoy physical pleasure only when it serves you first. You could start by encouraging more intimate foreplay that focuses solely on your arousal, and slowly teach him that his true pleasure comes from seeing you pleased. Whether that’s through acts of service, like massaging you or worshiping your body, he’ll begin to associate his own arousal with your happiness. Over time, he’ll start craving these moments of shared intimacy far more than anything he could experience on his own.
Date nights are another perfect opportunity to guide this transition. Instead of having him fantasize about spending time with another woman, create experiences that are deeply fulfilling and centered around your connection. Plan outings that allow you both to bond emotionally and physically, creating memories that build a sense of longing for time spent with you. Make it clear that his attention, affection, and energy should be devoted to making your time together special. When he feels that emotional high from seeing you happy, he’ll naturally start craving those moments more than anything else. Gradually, his preference will shift, and the idea of seeing another woman will pale in comparison to the joy of pleasing you. Date nights and spending time with you should carry a physical reward, if not directly sexual mutual masturbation or even requesting that he masturbate for you after returning home. If you are using a chastity cage or If not rewarded with physical stimuli, he may see evening with you as “unsuccessful” since it didn’t culminate as a physical pleasure of some kind. While this may not be a permanent thing, the dangling carrot of physical touch and sexual option reminds him that the two of you have a strong sexual connection.
Reinforcing this shift also requires some changes in communication. Make sure he knows how much it means to you when his focus is on your pleasure. Positive reinforcement is key. When he does something that truly centers around your needs, express your gratitude and show him how much closer you feel because of it. This emotional validation strengthens the bond between his actions and your satisfaction, making it clear that his real pleasure comes from pleasing you. Over time, this consistent praise will create a mental shift where he prioritizes your desires without a second thought.
Lastly, it’s essential to establish a deeper emotional and psychological connection as you transition his arousal to be more shared and less self-focused. Engage in meaningful conversations about how much more rewarding it is when you’re both experiencing pleasure together rather than separately. Share your vision for the relationship and how much closer it feels when both of you are prioritizing each other’s happiness. By making him feel emotionally connected to your pleasure, you’re not only shifting the power dynamic but also building a stronger, more fulfilling partnership where he genuinely craves you—not just for physical pleasure but for emotional fulfillment as well.
Sexual Denial
Sexual denial without incorporating physical arousal can be a recipe for frustration and resentment in a relationship. Denial, when used correctly, can enhance intimacy and deepen the connection between partners, but it needs to be balanced with moments of physical stimulation and emotional closeness. If your partner is being denied without any form of arousal, they might start to feel ignored, unappreciated, or even punished. This lack of engagement can create emotional distance, making them feel less connected to you. Over time, this can lead to resentment, as the denial begins to feel like a form of control or neglect, rather than a playful, mutually enjoyable dynamic.
To avoid this, sexual denial should always be paired with regular moments of teasing and arousal. This keeps the sexual energy alive, even when full release isn’t allowed. By maintaining physical closeness, through teasing, touching, or even engaging in activities that build up his desire without satisfying it, you’re creating a positive, intimate atmosphere. This keeps him focused on you, heightens the anticipation, and makes the eventual release (when allowed) far more gratifying. Without this physical arousal, the denial becomes a negative experience rather than an exciting challenge, leaving your partner feeling disconnected and deprived.
For sexual denial to work successfully, it should feel like a shared experience that both partners are actively participating in and enjoying. When there’s no physical stimulation to accompany the denial, it can feel one-sided and lead to emotional withdrawal. Physical arousal helps to keep the passion alive, even during periods of denial, by reinforcing the bond between partners and making the experience playful rather than punitive. Ultimately, when sexual denial is done in a way that combines both physical and emotional closeness, it can enhance intimacy and bring partners closer together, rather than pushing them apart. He wants to feel wanted, that doesn’t need to be a sexual want, it can simply be knowing that you crave touching his arms or rubbing his shoulders or any part of him.
When your partner is in a chastity cage, denial can be even more powerful, but it’s crucial to keep the experience engaging by incorporating plenty of teasing and arousal. The physical restriction of the cage heightens his sense of longing, but without moments of playful touch, teasing, or emotional connection, it can quickly turn into frustration. Being locked in chastity doesn’t mean his arousal has to be completely shut down—in fact, it should be the opposite. Regularly remind him of what he’s missing, whether through subtle touches, erotic conversations, or flaunting your own pleasure in front of him. This keeps him mentally and physically engaged, amplifying his desire and ensuring that the denial feels like an erotic game rather than a form of punishment, ultimately strengthening the connection between you both.
Denial can be incredibly exciting and fun for the woman because it puts you in complete control of his pleasure, heightening your own sense of power and dominance. Watching him squirm, knowing that every touch, glance, or teasing word drives him wild with desire, is exhilarating. You get to play with his anticipation, drawing out the tension and making him focus entirely on your needs and wants. It’s a thrilling game, where you hold all the cards, and his pleasure is entirely at your mercy. The teasing and control can make your own pleasure even more satisfying, as you revel in the knowledge that you’re the center of his world, his deepest cravings, and his endless longing.
Wrapping It All Up
By making these subtle shifts and imposing this dynamic over time, you can transition your open relationship into a fully female-led, cuckold dynamic that benefits your bond with your husband in every way. You get the sexual freedom and autonomy you deserve, while he becomes more committed, more focused, and more in awe of you and the sexual energy that you exude. Remember, the key here is to make it a natural progression—one that strengthens your bond, fuels your sexual fire, and empowers you to take control.
So go ahead, close his door and bring him into your sex life, lock him up, and enjoy the freedom that comes with being the queen of your relationship.
So my wife read this one handed her the phone she read it ….. Hard for her to finish… But she did ….
She says the following
1 She would never feel empowered by any of that some might others not at all
2 my wife finds it very empowering to share her man and wouldn’t want to give that up
3 opening a relationship takes a lot of work communication trust and love the closing of one side feels like a lack of one of these things
4 having the ability to watch me and some one have sex is a big turn on for her and yet a nother thing she wouldn’t want to give up
5 being able to say I give as much as I can get let’s her feel more in the relationship then most people can ever dream
Now all that being said she is not saying others may not want this she is just saying how she feels about it how it would affect her in ways someone who isn’t in a swinging relationship might not even know
Hopefully this is some helpful insight into the minds of swinging couples
Be awesome 😎 to eachother
I love number 2 for you! “My wife finds it incredibly empowering to share her man, and it’s something she wouldn’t want to give up.”
For us, swapping or swinging hasn’t ever felt like the right fit. Kev doesn’t get much out of being with someone else while I watch; his attention is on me and my pleasure, and he knows he’d be distracted wondering if I’m enjoying it too. Every relationship has its unique flavor, and that’s perfectly okay! It’s all about making changes that truly fit your dynamic. It sounds like you’ve both put in some great communication to land on something that feels right for you both, right here and now.
First I would never suggest any kink lifestyle to someone who isn’t questioning it already and even then I’d warn first of the pitfalls before the benefit just so you have a idea of the risk
As for me and the wife’s conversations my dear friend you would lose your mind if you knew the depths we talk of well everything people keep telling us to write a book 😂
Very well said. Keep him edged, teased, aroused – – and securely locked. His orgasms should have to be earned, and not always granted. Pegging will strengthen her dominant role in the relationship. He should be locked during her mating with her bull, and her cuck must be attentive and respectful when she tells him of the superior sexual experience her bull gives her – – no matter how high the level his aching sexual frustration may be. It’s interesting that even the most hesitant women will turn into dominant women once they realize the power and possibilities this lifestyle gives them.
…and don’t forget. Older guys don’t require as many orgasms as younger men, so don’t forget to adjust his chastity periods based on his age. (see photo below) 🙂
I would guess that more than half of my friends are non-monogamous to one extent or another. However, I am sometimes asked by my monogamous friends “How can you let your wife have sex with other men?”
But I don’t “let” my Wife have sex with other men. Karin doesn’t need my permission to do anything She wants to do, and She never has. I accept that She has an amazing desire for sex with multiple partners (both men and women) and the fact that She acts on these desires as simply part of Her being true to Herself.
Karin and I have never been monogamous. This was something I agreed to at the start of our relationship. From our very first date, Karin made it clear that no one person would be enough to fulfill Her sexual appetite. I accepted this and chose to continue the relationship under Her terms, rather than simply having a one-night stand with Her. (She had already told me that She was going to take my virginity that night, no matter what my decision was.)
Our relationship is constantly evolving. As She continues to enjoy Her sexual freedom, Karin has been gradually taking more control over me, both in and out of the bedroom, and I’m loving it. As an example, I asked Karin to lock me in chastity for Locktober this year. She did, and has since told me that Locktober will now be a permanent part of our relationship.
Early on in our relationship, Karin encouraged me to experience as many other women as possible. Sometime after that, it was only Her friends, other women She approved when I asked, and frequent swinging with other couples. Now, outside of occasional swinging, it’s basically two or three of Her friends. I am still allowed to ask permission under very specific circumstances.
I don’t think Karin will ever completely close my side of the relationship, as She really enjoys watching me with other women. Keep in mind, even if She does close it, I consider myself a very fortunate man and I’m not complaining at all!
“Miss Karin always gets what Miss Karin wants” are words we live by. The most wonderful part of that is that Karin has a way of getting what She wants in such a way that I never feel neglected, physically or emotionally. That is always the case, even as I’m watching Her have fun with others, whether She is with another man, woman, or couple.
In particular, women 40 years old or above would definitely be open to this idea after living a more traditional life with marriage and children. It does seem like women become more confident around this time and more open to being dominant. The problem is that people have a lot of negative stereotypes about women being dominant and men being more submissive. Her being the dominant one in the relationship doesn’t mean that you go around in the world being a meek wimp or that you wouldn’t defend her if she was being attacked or something like that. You are in the submissive/supportive role for her, not for everybody and everything.