Life needs to be exciting to keep us interested, we are sexual beings and we need to be challenged sexually just as we do with our relationships. If we don’t endure conflict or challenges in our relationships, they will grow stale and boring. We will slowly grow apart from our partner and we will seek… Continue reading Push His Boundaries
In my previous blog, I posted a quiz which used a few questions to determine if male chastity might be right for your relationship. Approximately 89% of respondents were determined to be a good fit for male chastity. Remember that my methods are highly unscientific and the fact that this quiz is on a site… Continue reading Chastity Statistics
The honor system has been working well for us and I don’t believe that Kevin has done anything behind my back but I miss the cage so it is making an appearance in our lives once again. No reason, I was responding to a comment from a user named Joe20 yesterday and realized how much… Continue reading Feeling Frisky
As our society’s definition of authority evolves, women are the new men. As you take a moment to think about that, it might actually have some truth to it. I know women have been the primary household authority for years. My mother was, my grandmother was and probably generations before that. As traditional gender roles… Continue reading Female Authority
Communication about sex is essential but most couples simply don’t talk about it. More evolved couples will come up with a game such as turning on a red light in the bedroom when one of the partners wants sex that evening. Why is sex something that we need to hide behind? My mom told me… Continue reading Communication
We’ve been trying a mixed bag of things in our relationship and I’ve been diligently documenting things for you all to enjoy. Some things have worked and others haven’t worked as well. Some things are more around the fetish side of things and others are essential to maintaining your feminine power in the relationship. Aside… Continue reading Does it work?
The dictionary defines compersion as: The feeling of joy one has experiencing another’s joy, such as in witnessing a toddler’s joy and feeling joy in response. You can think of compersion as the opposite of envy. The envious response to the above would be feeling envy rather than joy when watching the toddler. Compersion is… Continue reading What is Compersion?
I’ve been thinking about what makes a woman sexually awake and how men respond to her behavior since it differs from societal norms. This isn’t going to be an especially deep blog, I am just writing down some thoughts from a long car trip last week. A friend of mine graduated and I drove back… Continue reading Sexual Awakening & Religion
We’ve been using the cage as a relationship tool for well over a year now. We should have celebrated an anniversary for it. 🎂🎉 What would you call it, cage day? Check out my previous blog when do the training wheels come off for some background or just keep reading and I’ll try and fill… Continue reading The Training Wheels Are Off
In a successful relationship, decisions are shared, money is shared and both parties have an equal say in the relationship and the direction of the couple. So how can this be a thing when you’ve literally got him under lock and key? Why would you want this when you can exert total control over your… Continue reading Successful Relationships are 50/50