We’ve been trying a mixed bag of things in our relationship and I’ve been diligently documenting things for you all to enjoy. Some things have worked and others haven’t worked as well. Some things are more around the fetish side of things and others are essential to maintaining your feminine power in the relationship. Aside… Continue reading Does it work?
The dictionary defines compersion as: The feeling of joy one has experiencing another’s joy, such as in witnessing a toddler’s joy and feeling joy in response. You can think of compersion as the opposite of envy. The envious response to the above would be feeling envy rather than joy when watching the toddler. Compersion is… Continue reading What is Compersion?
I’ve been thinking about what makes a woman sexually awake and how men respond to her behavior since it differs from societal norms. This isn’t going to be an especially deep blog, I am just writing down some thoughts from a long car trip last week. A friend of mine graduated and I drove back… Continue reading Sexual Awakening & Religion
We’ve been using the cage as a relationship tool for well over a year now. We should have celebrated an anniversary for it. 🎂🎉 What would you call it, cage day? Check out my previous blog when do the training wheels come off for some background or just keep reading and I’ll try and fill… Continue reading The Training Wheels Are Off
In a successful relationship, decisions are shared, money is shared and both parties have an equal say in the relationship and the direction of the couple. So how can this be a thing when you’ve literally got him under lock and key? Why would you want this when you can exert total control over your… Continue reading Successful Relationships are 50/50
Typically men find themselves most attracted to women their age or younger. Women, on the other hand usually find men older than them to be most attractive. The male attraction to younger women may be because younger women have a higher likelihood of reproducing successfully. Women on the other and find established men to be… Continue reading Attraction & Courtship
This isn’t going to be an article about the twisted underworld of chastity, this is about feelings. This is about ensuring that the feelings that you are hoping to enforce with chastity are the ones that you get. If done improperly, chastity can bring feelings of resentment, distrust and anger when that is the opposite… Continue reading The Dark Side of Chastity
In your relationship, one of you likely keeps track of the sex calendar. You know what I mean, the formal or informal calendar that lists the last time you had sex and how many days it has been since you’ve had sex. This is part of the sex barter system where one partner uses time… Continue reading The Sex Calendar
So much of the material that you find on the internet about male submission and female dominance tends to minimize the value of the submissive man. If a man shows his feelings, he is somehow less valuable than a “macho” man. Boys are still taught to suppress their emotions and the boys that show emotions… Continue reading In Defense of Submissive Men
When you deem the timing appropriate, your man will need to be allowed a release. The timing of this is completely up to you but usually ranges between one week to two months. Once you determine timing, you will need to determine how you will let him have his orgasm. I’ll go through each of… Continue reading Sweet Release