The perfect cage would perfectly encapsulate the penis at its most flaccid state without creating discomfort as the penis swells to its erect state. The cage is not a torture device, it is simply to prevent arousal and access to the organ. The cage should also not inhibit cleanliness or urination since those are essential… Continue reading Male Chastity: Selecting the Correct Size For Your Cock Cage
I’ve hesitated to post anything about our new living situation for the last couple weeks because it is new and I really needed to take some time to let it all sink in. Some of the things that were criticisms initially turned out to be some of the more intriguing nuances of living as three.… Continue reading Then There Were Three
People base their self esteem on many different things including their job, material possessions and interpersonal relationships. If their job is going well, they feel good about themselves. If their relationships with friends are going well, they feel good about themselves. For many of us, including myself, sex is an enormous indicator of how I… Continue reading Sexual Contingent Self-Worth
The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to your relationship. Ultimately the cage and accompanying key symbolize that the man is willing to hand over control for the very organ that defines him as a man. Handing over control… Continue reading The Ideal Penis is… Locked!
This question has been sent more than a few times, it seems to be a concern that many guys have when making the decision to add chastity to their sex lives. The average age of readers on this site is in the 55-64 yr old range which seems to be pretty close to the average… Continue reading Does Chastity Cause Erectile Dysfunction?
Gender and roles are incredibly interesting to me. In my blog titled “Real Men Don’t Have Penises” we looked at the differences in gender and how similar both genders actually are. In Vikter’s Q&A blog titled “A Stay At Home Dad’s Tale” we looked at a real life story of someone who has made the… Continue reading Gender Balance
Vikter is a reader and frequent forum contributor that has incorporated some of the principles that I promote in the blog such as male orgasm control and pegging. Additionally, Vikter has also taken on a role of stay at home dad/house husband. In a comment on the blog entitled “Real Men Don’t Have Penises“, I… Continue reading A Stay at Home Dad’s Tale
A blog about sexuality and I don’t think I’ve ever done a blog about penis size. I should be ashamed of myself. Oh well, time to make amends. Desirability I like to look at large penises. As I said in a previous blog about penises, they fascinate me. Penises fall into two categories for me;… Continue reading Penis Size
When your guy is locked up, communication about his state is important. His level of desire and the importance and urgency of ejaculation is first and foremost on his mind. The rules that you establish together most likely prevent him from constantly pestering you about his current condition and his perceived urgency to “get off”.… Continue reading The Number System
This is an ongoing story about my life with Kevin, our neighbor Andrew and the new and interesting dynamic that is coming from our new relationship. You can read previous blogs about our story or you can start here. Either way, enjoy! It was a lazy Saturday afternoon, Kevin and I were playing some video… Continue reading Having Fun With It: Only Two Players