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What is Small Penis Humiliation (SPH)?

I’ve been trying to become more active on my twitter and I’ve come across yet another artist that I love and want to share with you. @burdle does some awesome sketches about chastity and small penis humiliation that really bring out the emotion and the fantasy of this popular fetish. I’ll be sprinkling a few… Continue reading What is Small Penis Humiliation (SPH)?

About Him · Chastity & Orgasm Denial · Medical

Male Chastity: Can sexual frustration make you die sooner?

Well that is a spooky topic for a blog, right? I was trolling for sex articles on science’s website because I am a pervy nerd and came across this gem from 2014. According to this study, the University of Michigan found evidence to suggest that sexual frustration in fruit flies diminishes life expectancy. Now of… Continue reading Male Chastity: Can sexual frustration make you die sooner?

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Modern Marriage: 5 Ways to Flip His Perspective

We all know that negative reinforcement doesn’t work and chastity cages are not meant as a punishment; at least not the way that I recommend using them. You can choose to see it as taking his sexual freedom away or you can opt to see it as liberating him from a negative sexual feedback loop.… Continue reading Modern Marriage: 5 Ways to Flip His Perspective

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Modern Marriage: Using chastity as a tool and not a weapon

In some relationships, the cage is used as a tool to coerce the man to proactively be something or act a certain way. In other relationships the cage can be used as a way to punish the husband or atone for an action or lack of action. One of these is a proactive and positive… Continue reading Modern Marriage: Using chastity as a tool and not a weapon

Chastity & Orgasm Denial · Relationships

Relationships: One very simple solution to get a night owl and an early bird on the same schedule

I’ve always been an early riser. I get up bright and early every morning while Kev is up late every night. Watching movies, playing video games, whatever he does. I like to get up early and start my day with the sun and end my day when the sun is going down. Approximately 25 percent… Continue reading Relationships: One very simple solution to get a night owl and an early bird on the same schedule

Chastity & Orgasm Denial · Having Fun With It

Orgasm Denial: Starting Slow With “No-Nut Night”

Male orgasm denial has many benefits that we’ve covered on this blog, the male and female orgasms are very different. The female orgasm is designed to promote closeness and pair bonding while the male orgasm is intended to push the man along to the next mating opportunity. The female orgasm gives you those magical feelings… Continue reading Orgasm Denial: Starting Slow With “No-Nut Night”

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Lazy Husband? 5 steps to motivate him to be a better partner

Do you have a husband who is lazy & unmotivated? Are you looking for ways to help regain some excitement in your marriage and in his day to day. Men can be absolutely amazing. Do you remember how he was when you first started dating? He was just like the man he is today but… Continue reading Lazy Husband? 5 steps to motivate him to be a better partner

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Male Chastity: Getting comfortable with a locked husband or boyfriend

One of the more challenging parts of incorporating chastity into your otherwise vanilla relationship is getting comfortable with a lock and key becoming part of your relationship dynamic. We’ve talked about the benefits of incorporating male chastity into your relationship and I won’t go into those for this blog but here are a couple options… Continue reading Male Chastity: Getting comfortable with a locked husband or boyfriend

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Orgasm Denial: Is Denying Your Husband’s Orgasm Manipulative?

There is little question that orgasm denial is manipulation of something by someone. The real question is whether you are manipulating something (the body) or someone (the husband). Specifically, what exactly is being manipulated? The word manipulative is typically used in the negative context but is it really negative all of the time? The dictionary… Continue reading Orgasm Denial: Is Denying Your Husband’s Orgasm Manipulative?