Locktober is a fun and sexy challenge for couples to enjoy each year that couples do each year to see how much sex controls their relationship and dabble into the world of male chastity. Locktober is a challenge to put his sex drive aside come together as one. I’ve written several other blogs about this… Continue reading Locktober For Dummies: A Step By Step Guide
We are well into September and that means we need to start making preparations for Locktober festivities. For those new to the annual ritual, this is the month to spread the word and work to popularize and normalize male chastity. This is a great time for those who do a weekly lockup to extend to… Continue reading The Locktober 2021 Challenge – Let’s fight testicular cancer together!
There is a big disconnect in the world of male chastity. Men like to hint to their partner about wanting to be locked up. In many cases the men simply show the woman a link to a cock cage and say something cryptic like “I want you to lock me up”. Ok but why? The… Continue reading Men: Tell her exactly how you can be her best partner!
Sexual confidence is about one thing, taking control. Once you are in control confidence comes naturally but feeling like you are worthy of taking control is another thing entirely. Let’s start by talking about why your sexual confidence matters. Sexual confidence doesn’t come from being “good in bed” or having a perfect body. Sexual confidence… Continue reading Girls Rule & Boys Drool: How can I be more sexually confident?
My husband of twelve years just told me that he wants me to lock his penis in a metal cage. I didn’t even know what to say! I searched on google and ended up here. I thought we were a normal couple, what brought this on? Is he some sort of pervert now? I am… Continue reading Why would I lock his penis in a cage?
I’ve been trying to become more active on my twitter and I’ve come across yet another artist that I love and want to share with you. @burdle does some awesome sketches about chastity and small penis humiliation that really bring out the emotion and the fantasy of this popular fetish. I’ll be sprinkling a few… Continue reading What is Small Penis Humiliation (SPH)?
Well that is a spooky topic for a blog, right? I was trolling for sex articles on science’s website because I am a pervy nerd and came across this gem from 2014. According to this study, the University of Michigan found evidence to suggest that sexual frustration in fruit flies diminishes life expectancy. Now of… Continue reading Male Chastity: Can sexual frustration make you die sooner?
We all know that negative reinforcement doesn’t work and chastity cages are not meant as a punishment; at least not the way that I recommend using them. You can choose to see it as taking his sexual freedom away or you can opt to see it as liberating him from a negative sexual feedback loop.… Continue reading Modern Marriage: 5 Ways to Flip His Perspective
In some relationships, the cage is used as a tool to coerce the man to proactively be something or act a certain way. In other relationships the cage can be used as a way to punish the husband or atone for an action or lack of action. One of these is a proactive and positive… Continue reading Modern Marriage: Using chastity as a tool and not a weapon
I’ve always been an early riser. I get up bright and early every morning while Kev is up late every night. Watching movies, playing video games, whatever he does. I like to get up early and start my day with the sun and end my day when the sun is going down. Approximately 25 percent… Continue reading Relationships: One very simple solution to get a night owl and an early bird on the same schedule