Ok I'm going to go out on a limb most people when in any kink lifestyle don't think about this till it's to late 🫩 

Damage control: making shere anything that could damage or has damaged the relationship is taken care of right away 

Let's make a example Linda is experiencing with humiliation and says something damaging ( your dick is to small to get me off ) at first it's just a fun game no one really means anything but suddenly it starts to affect her relationship how you might ask ? 

Maybe he's no longer willing to put himself in that situation and shys away from her sexualy 

Maybe someone flipped the script and now he's not to small she's to big 

In any case this she and he have deemed unhealthy how do you step back from that how do you undo what has been done 

It's not easy but nothing worth doing ever is

first and foremost identify the problem ( in this case we already did that )

second talk about it this can be hard very very hard honesty and feelings can be tricky when you are hert 

There find a way away from the problem she could exercise certain parts of her body to make sex more intense he can try different positions and work on different way of reaching sexual release for her .... Or they can both put more emphasis on emotional making love then epic sex .... Hell guys it's not always a contest lol 😂 

And forth remember this was a moment where a line in the sand was formed a lesson learned don't beat eachother with it remember it experience it let it form a new connection ( this is something we don't like the mane part of that is WE don't like ) 

And lastly yes it's going to be tuff but you can turn a negative into a positive make a game out of it well at least we didn't burn dinner or hey remember that time we fucked up let's not do that anymore..... 

Remember in the long haul your relationship comes first 

If you got any other tipe and tricks comment below 👇 I'm always shere someone can use them 

Have a epic day 😀 🎇