Household chores

I work full time doing construction in Arizona. There’s no punishment involved but I feel the best if I take care of the following: almost all the cooking, clean kitchen daily, most of the laundry, keeping floors vacuumed/mopped, pool maintenance, garden maintenance, manage kiddos when needed, of course a weekly honey do list, and I’m sure I’m forgetting some things. 

She works an average of 60 hours per week and makes more than double my income. I’m wiped every day and the house isn’t perfect every day she comes home but it’s absolutely a goal I strive for. Chastity is 1000% beneficial to the correct state of mind to start those chores after working in 100-110+ heat. At the same time it also helps to take the kinkiness out of it and try to make it into a habit of “normal” life. Lots of chores are normal life. Lack of orgasms helps to stay focused on what needs to be done to be a good husband. That’s how it works for me at least. 

Posted by: @bloombloom

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Hi everyone!

I'm new to this forum, so I'm sorry if something is wrong.

I have read several articles about FLR. It says that you should expect a servant mentality from your husband and that one of the advantages of such a relationship is that your husband does housework.

But almost always, articles about FLR talk about a situation where the wife is working and the husband is staying at home. It is logical that in this case, all household chores should be done by the husband.

But what if the husband is working and the wife is sitting at home? Does this mean that the wife cannot shift household chores to her husband?

In a female led relationship: 1. Husband should be expected to do household chores. 2. Husband should be locked in a chastity cage (wife as keyholder) 3. Wife should assign extra lock up time if husband fails do do these chores to her satisfaction - regardless of who stays at home. Exceptions may be made if husband works extra long hours, that aside however, these should be the rules.  

I was in the same way, FLR and working. My wife did a lot of work around the house but I had my specific chores that I had to do. I was the one that had to clean the bathrooms, normally this would be done early on Saturday mornings, the second was the laundry. She showed me how she wanted it done, folded and put up.