My bf and I are discussing a journey into FLR at his request. While not opposed to the idea, I am intimidated and anxious about the trek. He suggests this site as a great resource to explore, so here I am (we are). Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Welcome! Congratulations on your first step toward a female led relationship. I personally love what this type of relationship dynamic has brought to our lives. A couple of things to consider, go at YOUR PACE, not his. Take breaks from the relationship dynamic as needed, if he pushes, force a break so you can get things back on your own timeline. It's not a female led relationship unless he sets his expectations down and actually lets you lead.
He has probably been reading about female led relationships for years and has some idea of what a female led relationship is supposed to look like. It is different for everyone, you might find a very vanilla female led relationship fits you best, or perhaps you will want a more extreme version but take your time, baby steps and enjoy every bit of newness you experience together. You can only experience something once for the first time.
We are here if you have any questions!