Hello Everyone, I am a happily married man with a lot of kinks and interests but unfortunately my wife has no desire to explore any of them. All I can do is fantasize about trying lost of things. I am looking forward to see what conversations I can add to here. Â
Welcome to the group.
From what I've read, it seems that exploring your kinks and interests is best commenced by exploring your partners interests. This isn't a I'll-do-things-for-you-if-you-do-things-for-me, but rather just trying to be the best possible partner you can be. When partners gain that comfort and trust from exploring their interests, they may become more interested in exploring your interests as well.Â
Good luck and keep us posted.
You got some good advice from @restrainedlove. Â He is a pretty wise man. Â I agree that you are more likely to get your reward if you go for what she wants than if you focus on what you want.