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djv
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Found this forum a couple weeks ago, have been mostly watching and reading. Really like it. It approaches things from a more open perspective, vanilla to lifestyle and that’s refreshing and needed. 
I am married. The idea of chastity is not new to me, but never implemented. 
My wife and I are literally just scratching the surface now, and seeing how this will fit into our lives. Hopefully this place will be a solid resource for us. 

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Topic starter Posted : 09/10/2021 10:51 am
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@djv   Welcome to the party

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Posted : 10/10/2021 6:40 am
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Welcome and be ready for a great journey, especially the growth of your Queen!

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Posted : 11/10/2021 5:36 am
djv
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@fcmale Thanks, it’s already begun. She has read some of the forum, our communication has already improved. Last night we talked while i massaged  her feet and legs and discussed what she wanted for the relationship, now that im in chastity. Made clear points, her expectations, then said “read to me some things off the other blog (Femdom Think Tank) that you want me to know”….that alone is huge and what a turn on for me . Laying next to my wife, locked, reading excerpts of the FLR lifestyle that i find existing so she can understand more of what makes me tick. Im a pretty happy man this morning, and horny, as this is day 4 of being “officially” locked, lol
I do though, think we are both looking forward to doing this together, and that is so important 

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Topic starter Posted : 11/10/2021 6:44 am
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Posted by: @djv

@fcmale Thanks, it’s already begun. She has read some of the forum, our communication has already improved. Last night we talked while i massaged  her feet and legs and discussed what she wanted for the relationship, now that im in chastity. Made clear points, her expectations, then said “read to me some things off the other blog (Femdom Think Tank) that you want me to know”….that alone is huge and what a turn on for me . Laying next to my wife, locked, reading excerpts of the FLR lifestyle that i find existing so she can understand more of what makes me tick. Im a pretty happy man this morning, and horny, as this is day 4 of being “officially” locked, lol
I do though, think we are both looking forward to doing this together, and that is so important 

Congratulations my friend.  Ms. K. and I also enjoy the practice of me gathering things for her to read to her.  Our time for doing so is on Sunday mornings.  Ms. K. really enjoys the writing Mz Kaylee and FemdomThinkTank (and Emma too of course), along with a smattering of others and some erotic fiction on various topics for which we don't necessarily participate in but titillate us at the same time.  I don't know about your wife, but Ms. K. has great interest in what is being talked about on the interwebs, but has little time and patience for wading through all the "bullshit", be it porn-fueled BS, or people that clearly lacking reality.  

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Posted : 11/10/2021 8:19 am
djv
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Posted by: @subhubphx
Posted by: little time and patience for wading through all the "bullshit", be it porn-fueled BS, or people that clearly lacking reality.  

That’s a very good way to put it. Much of it is very male driven to masturbate to. I also think that even on the better sites such as Emma’s, there is so much info all at once, it’s overwhelming for the lady who has recently been told her husband would like this in their marriage and probably hard to comprehend it all and understand how it its going to be about her, especially if she is having to wade through shit to get to relevant info that she may agree with or understand. As much as we may enthusiastic about it all it needs to be about her and her pace and boundaries. So, last night we saw that really helped and like you also said, it was titillating and fun on top of being helpful. Win win for us as a couple. Not to mention I saw it boosted her confidence immediately as well. 

 

 

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Topic starter Posted : 11/10/2021 9:43 am
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