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Allie9449
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Hey everyone, younger couple new to the lifestlye and came across the website.  Looks like a great resource for couples looking into a FLR. 

Happy Sunday all. 

Allie

 
Posted : 08/06/2025 12:46 pm
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Emma
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Welcome Allie! What have you tried so far in the lifestyle?

 
Posted : 08/06/2025 12:57 pm
Allie9449
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Thanks!! Learning more at this point really.  Was less excited about trying it at first but like it more and more as I learn.  Communication with your spouse seems to be the key. 

Allie

 
Posted : 08/06/2025 1:30 pm
Allen007
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Welcome to both of you.

Regards

Allen

 
Posted : 08/06/2025 10:09 pm
Allie9449
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Thanks, Allen. Appreciate it 😀

 
Posted : 09/06/2025 8:12 am
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justmerfk1960
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Looking forward to your knowledge and thoughts

 
Posted : 09/06/2025 9:54 am
Allie9449
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Thanks, just! @Here to learn some ourselves as well 😀

 
Posted : 09/06/2025 10:26 am
Mot69
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Welcome 

 
Posted : 09/06/2025 11:07 am
justmerfk1960
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What has chastity helped you with in your relationship?   My gf wants to lock me. We both want an FLR. Thanks Rob

 

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Posted : 09/06/2025 11:12 am
1subdawg
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yep welcome Emma runs an amazing site here

 
Posted : 09/06/2025 8:51 pm
Allie9449
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Thank you everyone for the warm welcome. Appreciate it and makes me feel valued which is always nice 😁. 

 
Posted : 10/06/2025 10:36 am
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mickg93
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Posted by: Allie9449

Communication with your spouse seems to be the key. 

IMO this is Rule #1. If there ever arises any issue, always refer to Rule #1.

 

 
Posted : 11/06/2025 6:58 am
DanCuckold
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@allie9449 - hello! I am also fairly new to this site, and to the reality of FLR, and working everything out as we go. 

I'm not new to leading a kink lifestyle or to cuckolding, which gives me a grounding and some experience with putting my partner's needs first. 

I suppose our dynamic isn't a typical FLR. It could be described as a Vixen  / Stag (I hate those labels ..) situation or Cuckoldress & Cuckold. But this feels like a natural home for me, even though I seem to surprise people here with my lack of submissiveness. Compersion is my thing, but mostly, my wife is the focus of my love, which I guess is what it's all about at the end of it all. 

Welcome! 

 
Posted : 09/07/2025 12:51 am
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Michael
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@allie9449 You hit the jackpot of good information here. Welcome to learning a lifestyle that if it’s done right. You should have a happy marriage for a long time. Good luck to you both.

 
Posted : 09/07/2025 5:57 am
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