I have been interested in the FLR lifestyle for quite some time and have been reading all the post on this wonderful site to learn everything I can about introducing this lifestyle to my beautiful bride of 25 years.  She has always been the leader of the house, even though it was only talked about kind of jokingly with comments like "She's the boss, ask Mom" or "I know who really wears the pants in the family".  My wife is very particular about things so I have always eaten where she wants to eat, gone where she wants to go, and she's always had control of the money even though she didn't have to work.  She was always in control even though we put up appearances for friends and family, until recently.  More about that later. I've always helped her around the house but not as much as I should and we had a great marriage.  Our sex life was great but as with a lot of married couples life gets in the way.  Kids, work, family stresses so I had become a bit lazy in how I was looking at our lovemaking.  It had become more mundane than in the past.

Fast forward to about 6 months ago and I had an epiphany that I needed to be more attentive and really begin to think about my wife more, so I started to pay more attention and really focus on her like we did when we were first married.  Things were great and she was very happy with how things were working out at the time.  As I became more and more focused on her and devoting my every thought and actions on her I started to see a huge change in my perception of things.  I was more focused at work, I had more energy around the house and pitched in even more on household chores.  It was great or so I thought.  Then I found this forum and voila everything started to make sense and I really wanted to formalize the FLR I was already living.

After much perusing of this site, I learned how to have the open and frank dialog with my wife about how much I loved worshipping her and focusing on her needs.  I shared with her the warm and fuzzy feelings I get when I'm totally focused on her pleasure and how nothing satisfies me more than watching her orgasm.  How I love to massage her body and here how much it feels good to her.  She was eager to hear more but she had the normal questions of "Do you not like PIV anymore?" and "I really like it when you are inside of me?"  Of course I told her that I love when we make love and there is no better feeling than being inside of her but I hated myself for the person I become after I ejaculate.  I'm not as loving and I'm less focused on her and her needs.  I become distant and I hate that feeling.  The orgasm wasn't as meaningful to me as it was to stay 100% focused on her.  She had difficulty understanding my emotions in the beginning but as I proved to her more and more that when we focus completely on her pleasure that I'm the best husband and person to be around.  I've taken on the role of keeping the house clean, doing all dishes, the floors, carpets, dusting, laundry, etc.  I massage her every night before she goes to sleep and I wake up every morning to massage her back and feet and softly kiss my Queens feet before I leave the room. I make sure the house is picked up and the kitchen is spotless before leaving for work.

I could tell my wife was hesitant in the beginning and kept thanking me over and over and telling me I didn't have to do those things and she could help out.  I told her Queens rule, they don't do.  She laughed and kind of shrugged it off playfully at first.  As it's progressed, she has gradually began to feel more comfortable and has shifted from asking to suggesting things I can do to please.  Less thank you's and it's been great.  I continue to encourage her to rightfully take her throne and let me worship her as she deserves. We have had many open communication regarding my feelings and she is finally becoming reassured that I'm all in and couldn't be happier and I continually reassure that her that I want us to continue growing and I want to support her as she takes more and more control.

That brings me to last night while we were at our Friends house for Thanksgiving.  As I said before, this has been something we have kept private until last night.  I have lost quite a bit of weight so my clothes don't fit me was well anymore so gradually she's been giving me her jeans, work pants,  and shirts to wear, not just around the house but to work on when we go out on dates.  We have not talked out loud about the feminization part of this but I think she's getting into the idea of me wearing her clothes.  She goes through her closet on a daily basis and gives me some more clothes of hers to wear.  We are definitely not to the point of panties or bras, not that I'm opposed to that because I will do whatever she tells me to do.  Now back to last night.  I was wearing one of her jeans and shirts when we went over to our friends house and as we were sitting outside by the fire she just blurts out that I'm wearing her jeans and shirt.  I was a bit embarrassed but the more she talked about it the better I felt inside.  It was one more step in our evolving relationship and I really liked it. She want on to say right in front of them that if I didn't behave she was going to spank me.  I was in heaven but I could tell my Macho best friend was uncomfortable about it.  Well, my Queen didn't let up and continued to talk about it to the point that my best friends wife went through her closet and gave some jeans to wear.  It was such an awesome feeling and I really feel like we are about to enter the next phase of our Female Led Relationship.

I want to thank everyone on this site for all their experiences and advice because you have opened my eyes to a life that I have been waiting to experience my whole life.  Our relationship is so strong and we feel so connected to each other so I couldn't be more excited to continue our journey and see where my Beautiful Queen takes me.