Locktober 2024

We plan to participate.  Looking forward to hearing about lots of experiences…. And sharing ours, we didn’t quite make it last year but more determined than ever to try.  It has been a year of lots of progress in our FLR journey. 

Just started my first Loctober.  My wife and I just started using chastity occasionally.  She has only required when I travel away from her on business so I stay chaste.  Hotel pillows are a big temptation for me.  My infractions lead to very painful discipline so I really want to keep my pledge.  We have been visiting lots of jewelry stores together to find interesting key pendants.  She likes the idea that it is visible and might imply her control.  I think we would both benefit if she had more regular control with me locked.  Loctober is the perfect excuse to try.  So far so good, but my loins are excited, which is a little painful when they get a little too exuberant.  

Maybe a little bit ... I guess I'll see.

It’s been about a day and a half since my loving Hotwife locked me for the month. I just have to remind myself I asked for it.

Karin already had a high-quality, well-fitting metal cage She had used on me from time to time, but up until now, I had never been caged for more than two consecutive nights, a maximum of roughly 36 hours.

While She has always been in control during our relationship, both before and after we were married in 2018, this will be a level of control that She has never exercised before, and something I have never experienced.

I casually mentioned “Locktober” to Karin last weekend and that I would like to try it for Her. She hadn’t heard of it before, and read various FLR/Hotwife/Chastity pages and blogs for more information. Possibly including this one, but She didn’t specify.

We then discussed the subject at length and She told me that if I accept, I’m locked for the duration of October. No amount of begging, pleading, bargaining or otherwise would get me unlocked prematurely. After talking about it for about half an hour, Karin asked me if I agreed to Her conditions.

My answer was “Yes, Ma’am.”

The cage went on Monday night at midnight, and Karin is wearing the key around Her neck.

@spankble the key display is very hot.We do it from time to time, no one has remarked on it yet. But we plan to go a munch soon and I’m sure. it will be noticed.  Good luck.

I’m participating with my impish girlfriend this year. If I make it, it will double my personal record for chastity. We haven’t employed a cage yet (honor system for now) but she’s already reaping the benefits and very much enjoying herself. 😏

I’m determined to make it through the month, but sometimes she jokes, “There’s also NOvember, Denial December, Dry January… we might as well wait until your birthday!” 

My wife is asexual and we haven’t had sex since 2007. A few years back, she told me she thought I was masturbating too much, and asked me what I thought I could do about it. I had seen and fantasized about chastity cages, so she suggested I get one. But she didn’t want to see it or be the keyholder, so I’ve been self locking. So Locktober isn’t a big deal for me, just continuing what I normally do. I did have a remote keyholder last year, a dominant male. He kept me locked up until mid-November before giving up and telling me he was just pretending to be dominant, and that he was submissive too. 

Hi! This is my 2nd day locked! I started yesterday with a CB6000 silicone, a long one. My wife is very excited and yesterday i gave her an orgasm (but i didnt had it). She looks very horny knowing i´m locked. Right now, i don't know for how long i'll be in cage but i guess she put me already in locktober. Nevertheless, tomorrow is my realease day. We decided to follow Emma's advice and i have the right to release once a week, with or without locktober or other circunstances.

About half way through the month. Karin has been doing Her best to keep me aroused which is uncomfortable in the cage.

Karin is usually dressed for comfort around the house, but She has taken to wearing fishnet stockings, heels and miniskirts without panties. She seems to take every chance She can to bend over in front of me to show me what I can’t have (my cock in) for now, although I’ve probably gone down on Her twice as much so far than usual in an entire month.

To further tease me, Karin has been playing with toys almost every night. Sometimes after She gets Herself off, She will even torment me by buzzing my cage with Her vibrator, but always briefly. It’s never long enough for me to cum.

After Karin is done with Her toys, She takes me out on the balcony to make me watch Her smoke a cigarette, knowing it arouses me. She has even swapped Her usual Virginia Slims for Capri 120 menthols.

She hasn’t gone out on a date yet, but has one planned for next weekend. She has regularly brought me on Her dates to sit caged and watch before, but there won’t be any reclamation sex for me this time, just a pegging after She’s done getting laid.

Almost mid-way through the month, so far so good.  Yesterday was hard (literally), lots of fooling around. I'm reading Cupid's Poisoned Arrow -- its helping. I find it a facinating book - its reviewed on the Blog.  Yesterday, the wife gave me a preview of her halloween costume --- ufff sexy pirate.  

My mid-month update:

It's been fun so far. For practical reasons (and partly because I haven't found a cage that's suitable for long-term wear) I'm not caged for the whole month... just in chastity. But every morning, my partner rolls a D20 die. If it's odd, I'm unlocked for the day. If it's even, she rolls it again and I'm locked for as many hours as she rolls. Yesterday was a 19!

We're having fun. I've never had a partner who was interested in this and it's been a rewarding few weeks so far. She's gotten into it and says she loves the feeling of control and how she can elicit a response from me... as well as the increased devotion to her needs. However, she's already scheduled my release - and her reward - for Halloween night. She doesn't want to be deprived a moment longer.

Right now, as I'm typing this, my Hotwife Karin is out having a date night.

It is very arousing to think that right now as I sit here at home caged, having had zero orgasms since the start of the month, that She is going to have several tonight! She might even be having one right now.

I might have to take a cold shower soon... Just 13 days and a few hours until the end of the month.

Karin had a great time Friday night, and I think She has made a new “friend” – completely by random chance.

She says that he is a perfect gentleman and he gave Her exactly what She wanted… several times. He is in his late 30s and also in an open marriage, and Karin has mentioned this could possibly be a couples opportunity for us.

But before the four of us get together for that discussion, She wants another night with him, this time without condoms. Karin has tasked me with scheduling STD testing for Her and Her new friend.

Whether or not this will have anything in it for me, I’m super happy that She had a great time! She’s really been “floating” these last couple of days. It's so beautiful to see Her like this.

My sub is trying to do the Locktober but that's not easy for him