So my wife has a flirting text buddy from the UKÂ
About 3 weeks ago she got a text saying they had to keep things vanilla from now on he got a girlfriend........ Not two weeks later he's back full on full out texting....Â
Me: won't his new GF get pissedÂ
Wife: she broke it off sead he was to niceÂ
To me the words ( Your to nice ) means I don't want a relationship I want drama I don't want a relationship I want chaosÂ
I think my guy dodged a bulletÂ
But what do you all think ?
Yep @ljg I agree with you. Typically when women say that a guy is too nice they usually crave chaos. Chaos makes them feel something, even if its toxic. Usually they had a dramatic household growing up and they equate drama with connection and a dramatic household feels comfortable.Â
@evolvingyourman-2Â make them feel something even if it's toxicÂ
Wow what a thought some people so numb inside never thought of thatÂ
But yes indeed I think your right