Ladies: He needs to hear you say it

I love this. The word no is so powerful.

Posted by: @williamportor

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"* He tells you he wants to be unlocked from his chastity cage and be allowed to have sex with his wife, when she wants to have sex only with her bull. Look him in the eye and tell him "NO""

She tells him that she wants to fuck other men and then, ultimately, that she only wants to fuck other men and deny him sex.  Look her in the eye and tell her "NO, that's not what I signed up for."

love this simply awesome

Posted by: @williamportor

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Ladies - Your husbands or B/F's who express the desire to be in a female led relationship secretly want you to assert your authority. This means looking him in the eye and telling him "NO" when his wants conflict with yours and be willing to add extra teasing and chastity lock up time for disobedience. Your men will (on occasion) test your resolve to see if you'll stand up to him. Examples:

* You decided to change his chastity lock up time from 7-10 days. On day 7 he starts to whine and beg for a release due to his sexual frustration. Look him in the eye and tell him "NO"

* You want him to go with you to shop for clothes and/or lingerie so he can carry your shopping bags, but he wants to go to the sporting goods store. Look him in the eye and tell him "NO"

* He tells you he wants to be unlocked from his chastity cage and be allowed to have sex with his wife, when she wants to have sex only with her bull. Look him in the eye and tell him "NO"

* You've just assigned some domestic chores for him and want them done ASAP, but he wants to watch his favorite sports program. Look him in the eye and tell him "NO"

You don't need to be loud or abrasive, but you do need to be direct and to the point. His attempts to "top from the bottom" will become fewer and fewer if you make it clear you make the rules. 

Example below. 🙂 

 

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So true broh! 👍

Although I have to admit that it has hurt a lot and I have felt despair when my wife clearly puts me in my place and says NO when I really want something, it has always strengthened my desire, love and obedience to her! 🥰

And our FLR relationship is not just about kinky desires or sexual play. Our FLR relationship is FEMALE LEAD. It means that we have both acknowledged and given our consent that it is my Wife who wears the "pants" in the relationship and is the Boss.