With the number of FLR's are increasing, so too will be the number of caged males who decide later on they no longer want to experience the mounting sexual frustration of being locked in chastity cages, spanked, pegged, cuckolded, and feminized, even though they agreed to do so previously. These revolts may take the form of heated, verbal outbursts, all the way to physical altercations with wives, G/F's and/or bulls. These revolts may indeed be somewhat rare, but they will happen from time to time. So - What does a lady do when he decides to revolt but SHE wants to maintain her dominant position in the relationship, manage his sexual releases, and enjoy sex with other men?   Â
You can't impose your will on someone else, that's not what female leadership is about. The couple needs to work together to decide what they want and move forward as a team. Will he have slip-ups, yes of course. Will they have missteps, yes of course. Her goal is to keep the couple on the path that they've chosen together as partners.Â
You can't impose your will on someone else, that's not what female leadership is about. The couple needs to work together to decide what they want and move forward as a team. Will he have slip-ups, yes of course. Will they have missteps, yes of course. Her goal is to keep the couple on the path that they've chosen together as partners.Â
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Her goal is to keep the couple on the path that they've chosen together as partners.Â
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...and what happens when her "goal" is not realized, and he wants to pursue a different path - that of an equal or even dominant partner himself? I know a caged boyfriend who is getting desperate to be unlocked, but his G/F is standing her ground and refusing. I don't want things to get out of control.... Â
@williamportor There should always be a safeword. When things get out of control, there is always a way to bring things back under your control. When needs change (and they will) renegotiation and conversation will bring it back around.
If it gets to a revolt, out burst or god forbid physical violence. The couple is not communicating effectively. Yes a safe word should always be there. You have to have time set aside for checking in with each other. ( How are you doing today? Is there anything we need to discuss?) when you are starting out you might need to make adjustments daily.Â
@williamportor There should always be a safeword. When things get out of control, there is always a way to bring things back under your control. When needs change (and they will) renegotiation and conversation will bring it back around.
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Yes - A safe word is a good idea. It's a pity they don't have one....
I don't advocate total surrender, I advocate a healthy relationship dynamic with consent and boundaries.Â
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An interesting thought Emma.
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On the other hand, perhaps his intense sexual frustration, and inability to escape from the security of his chastity cage really is " a healthy relationship dynamic." After all, no one forced this young man to get locked in a chastity cage. His girlfriend did so with his permission. In addition, she's followed your suggestion of spending time with him in close intimate contact without sex. This has fulfilled her emotional needs, while keeping him aroused and denied. Sounds like a classic FLR situation to me. 🙂
@williamportor You seem to be bent on the idea that if a man made a choice to be submissive, in chastity or the like, that he forgoes the ability to change his mind. In other words, once he's uttered the words necessary to become those things, he forgoes the ability, or the right, to change his mind. Â
@williamportor You seem to be bent on the idea that if a man made a choice to be submissive, in chastity or the like, that he forgoes the ability to change his mind. In other words, once he's uttered the words necessary to become those things, he forgoes the ability, or the right, to change his mind. Â
It's ridiculous.
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You seem to be bent on the idea that if a man made a choice to be submissive, in chastity or the like, that he forgoes the ability to change his mind.
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It appears your understanding of my idea is based on a misunderstanding. I am not "bent" on much of anything (with the possible exception of my next chess tournament) I was simply collecting opinions on what a lady should do if her man changes his mind and refuses to honor his agreement. Since this will happen on occasion, I thought the subject was relevant to this site.
On one hand, everything must be consensual. You should not reach the limit of wanting to hit anyone. That is indisputable.
On the other hand, the woman in this case needs to know how to interpret when the cuckold or submissive husband can endure more.
Being able to endure a situation that is initially hopeless could stretch the submissive's limits and lead him to a situation where he truly feels dominated by a woman of character and ends up happily accepting his position as a devoted cuckold.
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