I’ve been thinking about masculine containment and the way dominant women (myself included, guilty as charged) sometimes sabotage our own emotional safety by pushing away the very thing we crave most. No, not “containment” in the traditional, patriarchal sense of control. I’m not talking about some dude telling you what to wear or interrupting your … Continue reading When Control Isn’t Control: How Dominant Women Mistake Masculine Containment for Threat