Tom Allen

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RE: Is it wrong? Bad? Should I feel guilty?

I follow some of the other "Christian sex" blogs, and similar questions come up about different aspects. Here's the thing about chastity play: you have *both* consented to a relationship in which he ...

In forum Orgasm Denial

4 months ago
RE: Do you or your partner have more or less interest now?

Hey @Patches - Paradoxically, playing with this on and off over the last 20 years has shown that when we're "on," we're having sex more frequently. It just happens that Mrs Edge has a kink for this, ...

In forum Everything Else

6 months ago
RE: Sorry for the late intro

Hah. The groups owner is a woman who set it up because she was tired of seeing pictures of men wearing cages and women's lingerie. I'm sure she was hoping for pics of body builders, but it devolved in...

In forum Introductions

7 months ago
RE: Sorry for the late intro

I'm really not sure how it happens, especially to the more extreme ones. It's obviously a progression, but I suspect that enough exposure will, if the person has the inclination, will eventually make ...

In forum Introductions

7 months ago
RE: Sorry for the late intro

Posted by: @evolvingyourman_ivcr4j I think one of the big problems is that a locked guy is left to dwell on his plight with little option for relief. Trolling a forum may sometimes be the only outle...

In forum Introductions

7 months ago
RE: Sorry for the late intro

I'm a mod at chastityforums.com. We originally set up that board because at the time, all the other boards were more focused on BDSM or other kink aspects. We wanted a place where mainly vanilla orien...

In forum Introductions

8 months ago
RE: Damage from chastity?

I'm a little late to this, but I've been involved with chastity devices since the late 1990s, and I've been locked up for long terms (months at a time) for almost 20 years. I've done my best to keep u...

In forum Everything Else

8 months ago
RE: Caption sites

I guess I should put in a plug for my own site. Right now, I'm still on Tumblr, and I have a blog that's mainly focused on tame, less explicit, chastity captions. It's a mix of reblogs and my own capt...

In forum Other Sites

9 months ago
Kudos for the new site & forum

Hi Emma - I haven't checked in for a bit, but I'm glad to see that your site is doing well, and I like the new forums. I've added these links to the She-Held blog aggregate ( ). For the rest of you,...

In forum Introductions

9 months ago