If you've spent any time reading my blog, you've undoubtedly seen that Kevin and I truly enjoy pegging. If you haven't tried pegging, swing over to the pegging for beginners blog that I wrote earlier this year.
Over the last two years, this form of sex has become as frequent as "old school" piv sex in our bedroom. We both love the closeness and connection that pegging allows us to share together. The intimacy and vulnerability that I can see in his eyes are so very sexy. Here is a quick list of ways that we love to peg! I also threw some videos in because I never do videos and they are great for demonstrating positions.
After pegging, guys seem to love cuddling and physically reconnecting but we will get to that later. I am talking about cuddling in bed together, with your strap-on. When we first begun pegging, I would strap up, do the deed clean up and enjoy some post-pegging cuddles with my big guy. As we've made pegging a bigger part of our relationship, I like to ask him to fetch my harness while I select a toy. Then we may lie in bed and watch TV or just cuddle and talk. While he knows the direction that the evening will be going, it helps him relax and not get so anxious.
I do like to ask lots of directed questions since he is still reluctant to tell me that he wants it. Kevin rarely asks for pegging even though I know that he enjoys it. I will cuddle with him and ask him if he wants to feel me inside of him. The pause before he admits it to me and presumably himself is palpable. "Yes" he whimpers.
We both enjoy pegging but society has made butt play something shameful for guys. My questions are intended to normalize this act within our relationship. We are both consenting adults and pegging is here to stay so he might as well admit that he actually enjoys it.
The cuddling most frequently progresses into some dry thrusting and rubbing before we get down to business. We oftentimes straddle the line between spooning and cuddling as we slow and enjoy each other's touch. We both lie on our sides and I of course get to be the big spoon in this position. This position is very intimate and passionate and you are close enough to hear his moans and feel his breathing. This position is very easy and can be done with any size toy. I tend to prefer a shorter, thicker toy since the larger girth makes for more man-noises and breathing which I so enjoy. …
