It is common knowledge that many kinks are born of insecurities, the incredible human brain sexualizes potentially hurtful things and makes us embrace them. Weird and counterintuitive but it is a real thing. Really real. Realest of real. Our society values the penis and attaches a manly subtext to men with a large penis and feminine subtext to men with smaller ones. It shouldn't come as a surprise that many men self-shame with sexual performance and the ability to please a woman so closely tied to the male vision of success.
Just as women are held to unrealistic size expectations, men are too. We are expected to have a size 0 waist with enormous back pain inducing busoms. Men are expected to have a large unrealistic and frankly sexually unappealing penis. Yes men, that's right. Bigger is not better. Larger penises come with a higher risk of infection, injury and pain.
Body shaming is just as common for women as it is for men especially in that department. I'm guilty of it as I think many of us are. With regard to fat shaming that women experience, many studies show that it isn't motivational. Shaming a woman's body over her weight can actually trigger biological processes (specifically cortisol) that make you gain more weight. Shaming a guy for his penis size isn't going to boost their cortisol and change their size of his willy but it might cause some other reactions.
Body shaming can absolutely be toxic and cause psychological issues like self esteem, depression, risk of suicide and anxiety. Men are especially at risk because they are taught from a young age to keep their feelings to themselves. This means they internalize those feelings and never properly deal with them. It is even reported that Adolph Hitler may have suffered from a bit of phallus imperfectus. Did his penis abnormalities contribute to his insane murdering of millions of people? I have no idea let's move along, this is taking my blog into a direction that I don't want to go.
Deep breath. OK let's move on.
Small penis humiliation is consensual roleplay in which one person verbally humiliates another person for the size of his penis. There are varying degrees of erotic humiliation from giggling and calling him tiny to spitting on him and calling him worthless for his under-endowment. For the purpose of this blog let's roll with the first of those two, I don't want to celebrate degradation too much. The men on the receiving end of SPH report that they find it sexually arousing, many of them don't even have a below average sized penis which I find curious indeed. Small penis humiliation may be similar in many ways to self deprecating humor. When we make fun of ourselves, our brains may take in at least a small percentage of what we are saying as fact even when it is said in jest. If you joke about it being small, you may eventually accept that as your self-penis-image.…
