Using a sex doll in the bedroom is typically considered a thing to do in the absence of a partner but what about including a sex doll with your partner as an element of humiliation. Sex dolls, pocket pussies and Fleshlights are not a humiliating experience in and of themselves but when you combine them with elements of humiliation in your relationship, they can be quite fun and entertaining. This borders greatly on small penis humiliation and other types of humiliation but since it relies heavily on a sex doll, it wraps many of those elements into one exciting new relationship wrinkle. This is all neatly packaged into a broader overarching concept of husbation.
Humiliation can be a escape from reality and while it may seem unconventional or uncomfortable to some, it can be highly arousing to others especially in the context of adding new excitement for long term partners. The appeal of erotic humiliation can vary from person to person, but here are some factors that may contribute to its appeal for some individuals; power dynamics, emotional intensity, taboo, transgression, emotional release, trust and intimacy. In fact, 37% of respondents in this Harvard study stated that they have engaged in a role play fantasy of some kind. Fetishes are a healthy form of self expression that couples can enjoy together. That's right, fetishes like humiliation are healthy and a great outlet to build and support the foundation of intimacy in your relationship. Repressing sexual fetishes can generally be more harmful than expressing fetishes in a safe environment.
Some reasons that your partner may find humiliation arousing:
- Giving control
- Taking control over an insecurity
- Immersing ones self and eliminating distractions
- Working through sexual inhibitions
- Arousal through trust and vulnerability
- Mental, emotional, and physical release after stress
- A feeling of mental and/or social rewards
- Knowing they are still loved even if humiliated
The first step is to purchase a sex doll or toy and they vary in price from very inexpensive (under $50) to very expensive (thousands). I would highly recommend starting small and building on that if you enjoy the sex toy humiliation role playing. We select a small sex doll with a torso and breasts but you can go as small as a Fleshlight which is portable and easily concealed for storage or discretion. We don't have much experience in this area but from the reviews I've seen the heavier the better is typically the rule. Also make sure that you use the correct type of lube to not break down your sex doll. You should absolutely not use any lubes that are oil based, they will destroy the material.
So you've selected a toy, and now on we need to pick out a name. He should not select a name, you should select a name for him. I just googled "stripper names" and got a very nice selection. Ours is named Crystal, we don't know anyone with that name and she has a sexy appeal to her name so we went with it! Remember that Crystal is your sex slave and will do all of the sexual things that you don't want to do and thanks to Crystal no longer need to do anymore.…
