Like many of you, my husband is pussy free some of the time but we ran into a problem that came up in therapy and my husband is beginning to struggle in terms of associating me as a source of sexual arousal. Our therapist is aware of the dynamic in our relationship but consulted with a colleague and eventually to her mentor.
They came to the consensus that my husband has lost sexual association with me. This happens naturally in some relationships when couples enter the ill fated friend zone. To make matters worse my husband is desensitized to sexual stimuli from watching me with my boyfriend (bull).
Sexual association within relationships can encompass a variety of dynamics, preferences, and meanings for different individuals. It's important to recognize that each relationship is unique and may involve its own set of understandings and agreements regarding sexual expression and intimacy.
For many people, sexual association in a relationship involves physical intimacy, which can include sexual intercourse, kissing, hugging, cuddling, and other forms of touch. Physical intimacy is often a way for partners to express love, desire, and closeness. Sexual association can also be deeply tied to emotional connection and needn't be tied directly to sex. For some individuals, feeling emotionally connected to their partner is a prerequisite for engaging in sexual activity. Emotional intimacy can enhance the overall sexual experience and strengthen the bond between partners. I love and cherish an emotionally intimate connection that I have with Kev and I don't seek to replace it elsewhere.
Open and honest communication is essential when it comes to sexual association in relationships. Partners should feel comfortable discussing their desires, boundaries, and any concerns they may have about their sexual relationship. Effective communication can help ensure that both partners' needs are met and that any issues are addressed promptly. In healthy relationships, sexual association should be mutually satisfying for both partners. This means that both individuals should feel valued, respected, and fulfilled in their sexual experiences together. It's important for partners to be attentive to each other's needs and desires and to prioritize mutual pleasure and satisfaction. Even in a a relationship where orgasm denial is present, the denial must be consensual for the relationship to prosper, he must willingly lay his sword at your feet and accept chastity as a tribute to you and your relationship.
Consent is a fundamental aspect of sexual association in any relationship. Both partners must freely and enthusiastically consent to any sexual activity, and consent should be ongoing and reversible. Additionally, respecting each other's boundaries, preferences, and autonomy is crucial for maintaining a healthy and respectful sexual relationship.…
