So, you've ventured into the world of non-monogamy, perhaps dabbled in cuckolding or opened up your relationship in one way or another. But now, you're wondering: Can we close that door once it’s been opened? Is it possible to return to monogamy after experiencing the thrills, the challenges, and the intimacy that come with an open or cuckold relationship? Well, let’s chat about it!
First, let’s acknowledge what brought you to this point. The journey into non-monogamy, whether it’s swinging, cuckolding, or full-blown polyamory, is often sparked by a desire for something more—more excitement, more connection, more freedom. For some couples, like Kev and me, cuckolding becomes a powerful dynamic that deepens our bond, fuels our sexual energy, and helps us explore parts of ourselves we might never have discovered otherwise. There’s a thrill in seeing your partner with someone else, and it can be incredibly empowering to embrace your desires openly.
But with that thrill comes a deeper connection, and it’s this connection that can make closing the door on non-monogamy quite a challenge.
Once you’ve tasted the freedom and excitement of an open or cuckold relationship, it’s hard to go back to traditional monogamy without feeling like something is missing. For many couples, the idea of closing off those experiences can feel a bit like losing a piece of what made your relationship special. The question isn’t just, “Can we close the door?” but rather, “Should we?”
Here’s the thing: It’s not impossible, but it requires a lot of communication, understanding, and mutual agreement. If you and your partner are on the same page, it can work. But if one of you is hesitant, it’s going to be an uphill battle.
If you’ve decided that it’s time to close the door on non-monogamy, here’s how you might go about it:…
