I am a long-time EYM reader and my name is Jennifer, and I have to say, this blog you've created has helped my husband and I explore and understand the dynamics of our relationship and even understand ourselves at an entirely different level. I have a question that I’ve been mulling over for a while, and I thought who better to ask than you?
So, here’s the thing: My husband and I have been in a cuckold relationship for a couple of years, I think I we were drawn to it before you still had your anti-cuckold frame of mind and opinion! We both enjoy it, but I’ve noticed that my feelings toward my husband have shifted a little. When I think about him submitting to me, submitting to my bull, and seeing him take a back seat to my pleasure, I sometimes find myself viewing him as "less of a man." Not in an overly bad way, but more like he's become a caretaker and an emotional partner rather than someone I view in a sexual, dominant light. I feel like I’m starting to see him as less of a trad man and more of someone whose purpose is to support and serve me.
I love him deeply, but I can’t help but feel this shift is affecting how I see him. Is this normal? How does this change in perspective impact our relationship long-term? I’d love your thoughts on how to manage these feelings because I don’t know what to do with this shift and I don't want it to turn into something negative. Should I be concerned?
Love and gratitude,
Jennifer
Hey Jennifer!
First off, thank you for your thoughtful message and for being such a loyal reader! I’m thrilled that my blog has helped you explore your relationship — that's why I do what I do! …
