Alright, let’s rip the band-aid off this one - every woman is a gold digger.
Say what, Emma? Yep. I said it. But before you roll your eyes or accuse me of generalization or internalized misogyny, pause and let me explain—because this isn’t a takedown of women. It’s the ultimate defense of our nature. Our instincts. Our beautifully wired biology. This is a love letter to women who know what they need and aren’t ashamed to ask for it. And it’s a wake-up call to men who still don’t get that security is both essential and sexy.
Because listen—I’m not saying she needs a yacht or a Ferrari. Most women don’t want excess. We want comfort and ease. And those two things are wildly different.
Let me say it plain: she wants to be able to take a deep breath in her own home without the weight of overdue bills or burnout whispering in her ear. She wants to relax. She wants time. She wants freedom. And she wants a partner who can help create that life with her—not drag her into chaos.
Let’s go primal and strip away the social media filters, the love languages, and the capitalist fluff. Women are wired to seek procreation, safety, provision, stability and protection.
We’re hard-coded for it. And no, it’s not because we’re weak. Quite the opposite—we’re evolutionary strategists. Survival queens. In ancient times, a woman wouldn’t choose the man with the best dance moves or the biggest biceps—she’d choose the one with the biggest pile of berries. The one who could fight off a saber-toothed tiger, patch up the cave roof, and still have time to roast a rabbit over the fire. Why? Because survival is sexy.…
