What kind of man allows a woman to lock up his penis? Why on earth would he subject himself to this sort of treatment? This kind of humiliation? Emasculation? A "real man" would never let someone do this to him.
First off, many men feel enslaved to their penis and to their sex drive. Think of the recent celebrities that have been in the spotlight. Cosby, Louis C.K. etc etc. These men are very intelligent and made some very poor decisions based upon choices that were made merely to fulfill sexual desire.
In my opinion, a real man isn't defined by his penis he is defined by his actions. A real man is a good husband, a good father, a good person. Allowing someone to help guide him to positive behavior is simply accepting help in an area that by your very nature is weak. If he can allow his wife to guide him in this one area, the entire relationship will glow. He needs her strength after their lovemaking sessions to ensure that he stays true to his agreement with her. Although different and strange to some, there should be nothing humiliating and emasculating here. The man is putting his wife first and allowing her a level of sexual enjoyment that other women would beg for. There are some fetishes that involve humiliation but that depends on the couple and we can save that for a different conversation.
I admittedly only know a handful of guys who are caged or have been caged in the past because it isn't something that couples openly discuss with others. I personally wish the taboo for this practice would go away because I feel like it is a legitimate way for women to help guide their man on a successful path. Part of the reason that I wanted to create this blog is to try and do my little part to help take things a bit more mainstream.
Traits of a man who benefits be being guided in this manner:
- High energy and sex drive
- Large disparity between the sex drive of he and his significant other
- High self confidence
- Low self confidence
- Works in an environment where he is in charge, admired or has sway within his organization
- Works in an environment with lots of interaction with females
- Has a penis
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