He is gay so he likes penis. She is gay so she likes vagina. They are bi so they like both. Then you throw a throw in trans and that whole equation gets more complicated. I love beautiful women but I am not a huge fan of the girl parts down there. A beautiful woman with a penis is a wonderful invention. I am attracted to the femininity of a beautiful woman, the masculinity of a beautiful man and everything in between.
What about the parts that I don't necessarily love? I really enjoy her curves and breasts but her vagina? I can take it or leave it. How about a masculine trans person with a vagina? It doesn't change things for me. I enjoy his masculinity and I am attracted that that masculinity but I don't care so much for his vagina.
Does that make me some sort of bigot, sexist or transphobe? Maybe. You tell me. I'll be the first to admit that I don't know anything about transgender community. Like many others, I get most of my transgender education from pop culture and porn. I acknowledge that I am certainly not giving these wonderful people their due since these are probably the worst two places I can go. Nevertheless, this is the context that I am working with.
With that in mind, we have four types of people.
- Those that identify as male and have male parts.
- Those that identify as male and have female parts.
- Those that identify as female and have female parts.
- Those that identify as female and have male parts.
So if #1 and #3 get down and dirty, everything is alright but any of the others want to netflix-n-chill then suddenly a group of people has a problem with it?…
