I've hesitated to post anything about our new living situation for the last couple weeks because it is new and I really needed to take some time to let it all sink in. Some of the things that were criticisms initially turned out to be some of the more intriguing nuances of living as three. We have an admittedly small apartment so personal space is at a minimum. Sharing one bathroom has been a challenge as well.
Things are good on this end and what started as a one week trial quickly turned into much more. In my previous blog, Kevin and I discussed inviting Andrew to move in with us instead of signing another year lease at his apartment. We decided to give it a week trial to see how things would work out. We went about three days and we all came to the same conclusion, that we were having a wonderful time together. With the full support of Kevin and I, Andrew gave notice to our apartment complex and we started working on vacating his apartment. This is where things got ugly.
The apartment reserved a garage for Andrew but that fell through because the previous tenant decided not to vacate. This means all of Andrew's stuff had to somehow fit into our apartment. We were able to get a small (12'x12') storage unit at the place down the street but we had to fit quite a bit of Andrew's stuff into our place. This meant that we had to reorganize and move things around. Even my computer desk was in pieces for nearly a week. We laughed and played together as we moved things to the apartment and the storage unit.
We got through it and it was FUN. Going through the experience together and the ordeal of moving with very little notice brought us together. I'll still be quick to say that we aren't a throuple or a triad and we don't intend to be one. We are simply a couple and our friend living our best life.
So the dust has settled and our apartment has twice as much shit in it and we've got another person. You would probably think we are incredibly stressed out but we aren't. Things seem nice. We went through a major life event together and it was fun.
The dynamic the three of us had prior to Andrew moving in was interesting and hard to define but things have become more clear now that Andrew is part of our everyday lives. It has become clear that Kevin is submissive to me and I find myself submissive to Andrew. Andrew and Kevin don't seem to have a D/s relationship of any kind but that may simply be too new. …
