Like most of you, I enjoy oral sex. I mean, I really enjoy oral sex. Not just receiving but also giving. There are so many nuances to oral sex and it can be about dominance or can be an act of service or submission. I enjoy waking up and feeling a warm mouth on my nether-regions. I don't always have an orgasm with oral sex and I don't always want to have an orgasm with oral sex. The act of oral sex can be the culmination of that sexual encounter or it can be foreplay for a more penetrative subsequent experience.
I enjoy waking up to oral sex (who doesn't, right?) but I don't have the patience for more than a few minutes of it. When I wake I usually need to pee shortly thereafter and I don't like to have an orgasm when I have to pee. They don't feel good and I am too distracted by the pee sensation. Enough about pee, let's get back to orgasms.
I mentioned above that I enjoy receiving oral sex but guess what. I also enjoy giving oral sex. A giver by nature, I enjoy kneeling before a guy and feeling his body tense and relax as I pleasure him. So many women expect to receive oral sex but don't enjoy giving it. First off, they are crazy because oral is as much fun to give as it is to receive.
I enjoy the dominance of oral sex. I enjoy holding the back of his head as he goes down on me. I enjoy walking through the door and aggressively pointing downward and saying "suck my pussy". I even enjoy receiving blowjobs on a strapon. That last one I did to be silly but despite having no sensation in the dangly bit of rubber I enjoyed it immensely. The control of dominance in oral sex is an incredible feeling.
I don't think that giving oral sex must necessarily be an inherently submissive act. Is there any difference between me saying "suck my pussy" and Kevin or Andrew saying "suck my dick"? I don't think so.
For example, when I give blowjobs I usually feel like I am in control. His body yearning for my mouth, lurching as I take him into my mouth and into my throat. I hold the power of pleasure and pleasure can be a powerful force. …
