There is a big disconnect in the world of male chastity. Men like to hint to their partner about wanting to be locked up. In many cases the men simply show the woman a link to a cock cage and say something cryptic like "I want you to lock me up". Ok but why? The reasons are far deeper and the intent is far more pure than many women think at first glance. What some of you might not know is that I spend some of my time as an amateur life coach for couples. This site has given me the opportunity to enter the lives and the bedrooms of many couples and learn what makes us all tick.
Let me start with a email that I recently helped a man write to his wife of ten years. I've copied and pasted this letter in its entirety with his permission.
Writing an email like this must be tough but showing his wife why he wants to control his orgasms is essential to her understanding that this isn't just some weird sexual fetish. The response from his wife was brief but quite positive.
If you want to copy and paste this message to your significant other, please do so. I encourage you to explain orgasm denial in such a way that promotes her needs and not just your own. This message was sent several months ago and since then the couple has continued to grow together.
