If you've been around this site more than a few minutes, you know that my fiance and I are huge pegging fans. Huge fans. I mean we peg more than PIV huge. I like the power, the intimacy, the closeness the everything. Anyway. Not going to get into that today, I've written enough about it here and here. What about the strap-on blowjob? What would I get from having him suck on my strap-on? The answer is everything and also nothing!
Leave it to me to create more questions than answers in an intro paragraph. I've been trying to embrace the difficult-to-explain in the last few blogs because I like to make my writing prompts difficult. Don't judge me. Ok so strap-on sucking. When a man kneels before you, takes your waiting strap-on into his mouth and performs fellatio on it. As the sucker, he gets no pleasure. As the suckee, I get no pleasure. Why would anyone ever want to suck on a rubber dick and why the heck would this even be a thing?
Rubber dick or not, I do enjoy it. Even without a bullet vibrator placed inside my strap-on harness, I feel something. I feel intimacy, I feel like the strap-on is an extension of myself. The harness alone makes me feel sexy and makes me feel really hot. Part of it is the power dynamic but that's not all. I really feel like I get pleasure from watching him kneel in front of me and take me into his mouth. I enjoy holding the back of his head and instructing him on how I want it. I do feel something. Despite the cock not being part of my limbic system, I feel him slightly gag on it as it reaches the back of his throat. Perhaps it is something like when a person loses a leg and they feel that phantom pain where their limb used to be. I feel pleasure where my cock never was.
Part of it is how it looks. Looking down at him while he kneels before you, you place the tip in his mouth and he works it up and down until you are face fucking him. Or how about the more sensual blowjob where you lie beside each other and he goes down below the covers and caresses your thighs as he kisses the shaft, the head and the outline of the harness on your body. Yes. I am one with the strap-on and it is one with me.
He looks so cute as he focuses intently on the task ahead of him. Looking up at me as I make eye contact with him and hold the back of his head firmly. The power dynamic. Yum.
By definition, he is having sex with a woman so the act is not gay. I will say that bi guys give great blowjobs but even the straightest of straight guys can learn to suck like pros. Part of the fun is teaching him what I like and I enjoy watching him navigate the different sizes and shapes of phalluses from our toybox. From the little one that barely reaches his tonsils to the bigger one where he can barely navigate the head. …
