Hello, lovely ladies! Today I'll dive into a topic that's close to my heart—and maybe yours too—female sexual energy and the power it wields through the different phases of your life. Let’s face it, society has done a bang-up job of taking female sexual energy for granted. When we’re young, fit, and full of that natural confidence, we’re seen as powerful and desirable. But what happens as we age? As we gain weight, get a few more laugh lines, forehead wrinkles, and start feeling like our once-invincible sexual value is fading?
It’s a tough pill to swallow, especially when the world seems to agree. Statistics back this up, unfortunately. A study from OKCupid revealed that the peak desirability for women hits at the ripe old age of 22, while men don’t reach their peak until age 50. Yes, you read that right! As we age, our perceived desirability drops like a stone, while men continue to rise in sexual value like a fine wine. This statistic is in stark contrast to male sex drive peaking in their 20s with the female sex drive peaking from peak in the late teens versus a female sex drive peaking between 27 and 45 years old.
Now, if you’re a naturally submissive woman, this shift might not be earth-shattering. You may find comfort in further submitting to your now even more desirable partner, creating a sense of stability in the relationship. It's actually a win-win for some couples as they settle into their twilight years together. But for those of us who are a bit more on the dominant side—those who have always had particular expectations and a certain command over our relationships—this can be a real kicker.
As females hit 50, our desirability, according to societal standards, is exponentially less than it was at 40. And don’t even get me started on how a 30-year-old compares to her 20-year-old self. Meanwhile, our partners are becoming more attractive, more confident, and more desirable. The scales tip, and suddenly, it feels like we’re losing control of the very dynamics we once held in the palm of our hands.…
