oh its for sure a thing for some women. very empowering but the contests judged by groups of women or secret groups or meetups I cant say if that is a thing. Check out cfnm marie on google.

Ok I'm going to say yes I have seen groups of people that get together and do ....... All kinds of things to do with this .... However that rabbit hole me and the wife decided nope don't want to go there .... 

Saw enough from the outside to say not for us ( no judgement ) 

Now if your looking for groups to hangout with first and get your feet wet 

One get a ap like fetlife put all your interest in the bio 

Two add a interest in going to meet and greets .... ( Sometimes called munchs ) ...

Three be a friendly as you can be don't go in thinking man I'm going to get what I want think ok I'm going to find out what where and how this happens 

Ok you now have a rode map time to start the adventure getting there is half the fun good luck 🤞 😀 

In my experience, the enjoyment of what constitutes cfnm is definitely a thing among women I know, it’s just often not called that and manifests itself differently to the sort of online manufactured cfnm pornography.

The online content is often depicted as vindictive. Often real-life cfnm experiences for women aren't vindictive and typically more the accidental incidents type (usually around changing) where you have a sneaky laugh afterwards with your girlfriends about how embarrassed that poor guy with the little willy must have been.

And further proof is the huge success of the Magic Mike Live tour. Yes this is somewhat tame but its main attraction is effectively the female gaze and men being objectified. There is also an interesting aspect of the Magic Mike Live tour where I noticed it was increasingly normalised and female commentators in the media pushed back hard on anyone trying to spoil the fun. I recall they even had the male strippers on a morning news program and when some whiny men complained about the double standard there was a fearsome pushback (quite rightly) from women. It became a sort of statement of ‘we can enjoys this openly, and men aren’t allowed to shame us for it.’

I saw this even in our own office as a bunch of us organised a booking to go see it together. Fellow female colleagues would openly talk excitedly about it in anticipation, totally ignoring the blushes of the male colleagues overhearing it. And after the show when we were having drinks, some got very assertive about enjoying teasing the guys in the office about this female-only ‘work’s do’.

I think also an issue with the online manufactured cfnm content is it often just concludes with the guy getting to jerk off while the women watch on, bored and silent. That doesn’t appeal to me. What I find more intriguing is some of the cfnm.net content where some of the past stories portrayed real consequences for the male, like losing out to a female rival in a promotion.

I think as many younger women are increasingly career-driven, that sort of office politics/cfnm could maybe have some affinity. The notion of that bastard at work losing his suit and being embarrassed and cut down to size is fun to me.

But for now I think the way women’s participation in cfnm will manifest is the increasing normalisation of male strip shows as a group outing, until more feel confident not to be shamed or threatened in pursuing other avenues of cfnm.