Masturbation is a huge part of our sexuality. We all masturbate and taking matters into our own hands is nothing to be ashamed of. The problems come when masturbation causes conflict in the relationship. Problems occur when the masturbation of one partner gets in the way of the sexual or emotional needs of the other.… Continue reading Talk to him about masturbation
I’ve been a bit silent over the last month as we’ve had family in and out of town and everything that comes with the holidays. What better way to kick off the new year than Male Chastity Day? Male Chastity is a trend that is growing in popularity as a reminder of the negative effect… Continue reading Male Chastity Day 2020
The following is an insightful piece written by Tumbelina, a chastity advocate. I wanted to share it with you all since the article seemed to resonate with my feelings and observations about chastity and orgasm control. I don’t have a way to get in touch with the author but I’d be happy to provide further… Continue reading A Chastity Manifesto
Oscar Wilde once said “Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about Power.” While that quote is vastly overused, it is completely accurate. We use sex when we are single for self-validation. We use sex when we are married or in a relationship as a means to validate our relationship and… Continue reading Penetration & Dominance
My mother told me that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. To some extent, she was right. Men love affection, attention, appreciation and respect. Cooking for your man shows all of these things – serving by providing. How would you feel if you spent hours slaving over the stove and your… Continue reading Masturbation Is Cheating
Locktober is the annual challenge that man couples do each year to see how much sex controls their relationship. Sex is a wonderful part of a relationship and I am an enormous advocate. Sex shouldn’t be the basis of interactions with your significant other. Locktober is a challenge to put his sex drive aside come… Continue reading What Is Locktober?
In my previous blog, I posted a quiz which used a few questions to determine if male chastity might be right for your relationship. Approximately 89% of respondents were determined to be a good fit for male chastity. Remember that my methods are highly unscientific and the fact that this quiz is on a site… Continue reading Chastity Statistics
Orgasm control and enforced chastity is a huge benefit for many couples. Please take this quiz to see if it might be right for you and your relationship. It seems like this quiz has been pretty popular. What other quizzes would you like to see? Please leave a note in the comments below!
While I don’t have any way to disprove or authenticate the statistic in the header image for this blog which states “An estimated one in every 6 straight men have tried a male chastity device”, I will say that the trend is growing. One in six straight men sounds high to me but I don’t… Continue reading How Popular Is Chastity & Orgasm Denial
The honor system has been working well for us and I don’t believe that Kevin has done anything behind my back but I miss the cage so it is making an appearance in our lives once again. No reason, I was responding to a comment from a user named Joe20 yesterday and realized how much… Continue reading Feeling Frisky