In countless previous blogs, I’ve discussed the merits of separating sex from ejaculation. I’ve received comments that make it seem impossible but it really isn’t that difficult. The problem is getting started and changing what you’ve taken for granted all of these years. Soaking is an interesting concept of inserting a penis into a vagina… Continue reading Soaking: The Dock and Talk Approach
The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to your relationship. Ultimately the cage and accompanying key symbolize that the man is willing to hand over control for the very organ that defines him as a man. Handing over control… Continue reading The Ideal Penis is… Locked!
Physical touch is very important to many of us and it seems that our society does our best to eliminate touch at every turn. Have you ever heard the term “I’m a hugger”? This typically means that the self admitted hugger knows that he or she recognizes the most love by physical contact. Most adults… Continue reading Antisocial Distancing
Which is better? I’ll go against everything that I have ever been told and begin with the conclusion. The plastic or resin cage is lighter weight and typically will not set off metal detectors. It is also more resistant to changes in temperature and this typically makes it more comfortable for the wearer. Cracking, snapping… Continue reading Plastic or Metal
Masturbation is a huge part of our sexuality. We all masturbate and taking matters into our own hands is nothing to be ashamed of. The problems come when masturbation causes conflict in the relationship. Problems occur when the masturbation of one partner gets in the way of the sexual or emotional needs of the other.… Continue reading Talk to him about masturbation
I’ve been a bit silent over the last month as we’ve had family in and out of town and everything that comes with the holidays. What better way to kick off the new year than Male Chastity Day? Male Chastity is a trend that is growing in popularity as a reminder of the negative effect… Continue reading Male Chastity Day 2020
The following is an insightful piece written by Tumbelina, a chastity advocate. I wanted to share it with you all since the article seemed to resonate with my feelings and observations about chastity and orgasm control. I don’t have a way to get in touch with the author but I’d be happy to provide further… Continue reading A Chastity Husband Manifesto
Oscar Wilde once said “Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about Power.” While that quote is vastly overused, it is completely accurate. We use sex when we are single for self-validation. We use sex when we are married or in a relationship as a means to validate our relationship and… Continue reading Penetration & Dominance
My mother told me that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. To some extent, she was right. Men love affection, attention, appreciation and respect. Cooking for your man shows all of these things – serving by providing. How would you feel if you spent hours slaving over the stove and your… Continue reading Is Masturbation Cheating?
Locktober is the annual challenge that man couples do each year to see how much sex controls their relationship. Sex is a wonderful part of a relationship and I am an enormous advocate. Sex shouldn’t be the basis of interactions with your significant other. Locktober is a challenge to put his sex drive aside come… Continue reading What Is Locktober?