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Sex Ratios: What if the global ratio of males and females changed?

The ratio of men and women in the world is remarkably similar with males being only slightly more common than females. In some countries the ratio is slightly higher than others but it doesn’t change much and hasn’t over the course of recorded history. You can read more about the distribution of chromosomes and the… Continue reading Sex Ratios: What if the global ratio of males and females changed?

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Husbands: You are not enough

As I learn more about my sexuality and about how both males and females are wired, I have to question our society’s husband and wife normative. I understand that the world is roughly equal in terms of the ratio of males (50.4%) and females (49.6%). With that ratio, a 1:1 pair bonded ratio makes sense… Continue reading Husbands: You are not enough

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Sitting One Out: You Don’t Always Need to Participate

There is a relationship between all emotions but compersion and jealousy have one of the most unique. Jealousy is a beast of an emotion since jealousy in the context of a relationship produces many secondary emotions such as fear, suspicion, rage and humiliation. Compersion on the other hand is joy and empathy in the happiness… Continue reading Sitting One Out: You Don’t Always Need to Participate

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What do women want in a relationship?

The question that has been asked a million times in a million different ways. I am not going to attempt to answer it because the question shouldn’t need to be asked in a relationship with proper communication. This isn’t about what I want for dinner, this is about the traits that I find attractive. What… Continue reading What do women want in a relationship?

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Masturbation Fantasies: Can Porn Break Our Imagination?

What do you think of when you masturbate? Sometimes I fantasize about an elaborate romantic fantasy usually in black and white like an old movie. Sometimes I imagine an intimate encounter with someone I recognize, sometimes with a past lover and other times with a complete stranger. When I’m short on time or especially determined… Continue reading Masturbation Fantasies: Can Porn Break Our Imagination?

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The Male Orgasm is a Finite Resource

The male orgasm is interesting when I compare it to my own. I can have seven or eight orgasms before I simply feel too exhausted (and sore) to go on. Despite that, my arousal stays generally the same during and after each orgasm even increasing from one to the next. On the male side, the… Continue reading The Male Orgasm is a Finite Resource

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Gender Balance and Understanding: Using Pegging as a Tool

Within each of us there are two sides; the female side and the male side. A combination of different feminine and masculine parts to make you the person that you are. A gender balance or a yin yang of sorts. This is normal, this is just fine and neither side is superior to the other.… Continue reading Gender Balance and Understanding: Using Pegging as a Tool