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Copulins or “Vagina Magic”

What the heck are copulins? I came across them when doing some research about pheromones. For some reason, the word copulins makes the think of little green men or minions but they are very different. In contrast to my mental image, copulins are chemicals secreted from the vagina. Chemically they are complicated secretions with aliphatic… Continue reading Copulins or “Vagina Magic”

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Tantra – Touch and Sex

In my previous blog about antisocial distancing, I talked about physical touch and separated it from sex. In this one I will do just the opposite. What about when touching your sexy bits isn’t about sex at all. I started researching tantra and massage shortly after posting our tantric troll’s story. Lingam Massage The penis… Continue reading Tantra – Touch and Sex

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Antisocial Distancing

Physical touch is very important to many of us and it seems that our society does our best to eliminate touch at every turn. Have you ever heard the term “I’m a hugger”? This typically means that the self admitted hugger knows that he or she recognizes the most love by physical contact. Most adults… Continue reading Antisocial Distancing

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Sexualizing Insecurities

I’m writing the draft of this blog on a flight during that strange week between Christmas and New Year. Thankfully the flight is half full and I have the whole row to myself. I don’t think I’d be able to concentrate if I was constantly worried about the wandering eyes of the person beside me.… Continue reading Sexualizing Insecurities