I’ve just been thinking and researching some things about human sexuality and felt the need to put some thoughts down. Both men and women are wired to be monogamous but in some sort of angry paradox of nature we are both also wired to be promiscuous. It seems that we either go into a relationship… Continue reading Promiscuity & Monogamy
In my previous blog about antisocial distancing, I talked about physical touch and separated it from sex. In this one I will do just the opposite. What about when touching your sexy bits isn’t about sex at all. I started researching tantra and massage shortly after posting our tantric troll’s story. Lingam Massage The penis… Continue reading Tantra – Touch and Sex
Physical touch is very important to many of us and it seems that our society does our best to eliminate touch at every turn. Have you ever heard the term “I’m a hugger”? This typically means that the self admitted hugger knows that he or she recognizes the most love by physical contact. Most adults… Continue reading Antisocial Distancing
I admit it. Penises fascinate me. I wouldn’t say that penises are incredibly attractive (sorry guys) but they are incredibly practical. Their sizes and shapes are perfect for their purpose. I don’t typically get instantly aroused when I see a picture of a penis but I do get turned off seeing penises that are generally… Continue reading Penis Fascination
For those of you who have been around a while, you know that I’m never one to be afraid of feeding the trolls. Something about the the site or my experiences with Kevin must trigger people. In any case, I received the comment below and decided to publish it as a blog to encourage discussion… Continue reading Tantric Trolls
I’m writing the draft of this blog on a flight during that strange week between Christmas and New Year. Thankfully the flight is half full and I have the whole row to myself. I don’t think I’d be able to concentrate if I was constantly worried about the wandering eyes of the person beside me.… Continue reading Sexualizing Insecurities
Pegging is a gentle act of submission for us. I enjoy it that way, I want him to feel the sensual side of sex. I want him to feel emotions while I hold him and penetrate him slowly. I want him to feel comforted as I gently slide myself in and out of his body.… Continue reading A Bit Rougher
Relationships are all about connection. Sometimes we have busy lives, mismatched libidos or even conflict that steps between us. Our emotions play an enormous part of our ability to connect with our partners. Few of our partners are out to cause us emotional or physical harm. If you are convinced that your partner isn’t looking… Continue reading A Deep Connection
Life needs to be exciting to keep us interested, we are sexual beings and we need to be challenged sexually just as we do with our relationships. If we don’t endure conflict or challenges in our relationships, they will grow stale and boring. We will slowly grow apart from our partner and we will seek… Continue reading Push His Boundaries
In my previous blog, I posted a quiz which used a few questions to determine if male chastity might be right for your relationship. Approximately 89% of respondents were determined to be a good fit for male chastity. Remember that my methods are highly unscientific and the fact that this quiz is on a site… Continue reading Chastity Statistics
