We’ve been using the cage as a relationship tool for well over a year now. We should have celebrated an anniversary for it. 🎂🎉 What would you call it, cage day? Check out my previous blog when do the training wheels come off for some background or just keep reading and I’ll try and fill… Continue reading The Training Wheels Are Off
Alright maybe men aren’t boring but monogamy can get boring. Our entire lives we are taught that we need to find our prince charming, marry him with some big extravagant wedding and live happily ever after. Our husband should be our best friend and our soulmate. That one man should be our only sexual partner… Continue reading Monogamy is Boring
In your relationship, one of you likely keeps track of the sex calendar. You know what I mean, the formal or informal calendar that lists the last time you had sex and how many days it has been since you’ve had sex. This is part of the sex barter system where one partner uses time… Continue reading The Sex Calendar
The concept of bartering involves one party giving something to another party in exchange for something of similar value. As one of the world’s oldest professions, prostitution is the ultimate in sex bartering. In the context of relationships this equates to the bargaining for sex. We’ve all heard it before: I did the dishes and… Continue reading The Sex Barter System
I had a conversation with a friend of mine – she knows all about my love for keeping my fella under lock and key. So far she has shied away from doing anything and her concern was about altering the dynamic of her marriage. If your relationship is working, I fully understand not wanting to… Continue reading Lock Him Up For Date Night
No article here, just an April Fools pic to get your day going.
Looking good for your partner is an important thing for every relationship. Sometimes you feel like your partner may need a bit of work to motivate him to get to the gym or change his diet, cut back on the beer or whatever the situation may be. A couple must stay sexually attracted to each… Continue reading Weight Loss
I’ve never been an overly extroverted person, in fact I really have to make an effort to be outgoing in social situations. Relationships are much of the same. When Kevin and I first started dating, I made a bit more of an effort. I dressed up for him, I was a bit more flirty in… Continue reading The Joys of Teasing Him
How do I feel about porn? I don’t have a problem with porn. In fact I enjoy watching porn. I don’t feel like it is demeaning to women. I don’t have religious objections to porn. Male stimulation is primarily visual and men are very easily desensitized to the images that they see. When he is… Continue reading Porn
Its not all fun and games. But sometimes it is. Some Fun Games To Play This can be tough for the male but here are some games to make the teasing a bit more exciting for both of you. Remember that any dates on the calendar can be changed at any time by the partner.… Continue reading Its Not All Fun and Games
