Oscar Wilde once said “Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about Power.” While that quote is vastly overused, it is completely accurate. We use sex when we are single for self-validation. We use sex when we are married or in a relationship as a means to validate our relationship and… Continue reading Penetration & Dominance
Locktober is the annual challenge that man couples do each year to see how much sex controls their relationship. Sex is a wonderful part of a relationship and I am an enormous advocate. Sex shouldn’t be the basis of interactions with your significant other. Locktober is a challenge to put his sex drive aside come… Continue reading What Is Locktober?
Life needs to be exciting to keep us interested, we are sexual beings and we need to be challenged sexually just as we do with our relationships. If we don’t endure conflict or challenges in our relationships, they will grow stale and boring. We will slowly grow apart from our partner and we will seek… Continue reading Push His Boundaries
Can you build a fetish in your guy thorough operant conditioning? Operant conditioning is a type of learning where behavior is controlled by consequences. You can read more about operant conditioning here. The question with this blog isn’t about operant conditioning but rather if you can create a sexual fetish by conditioning him to sexualize… Continue reading Can You Create a Fetish?
Kevin and I love experimenting. Nothing new for us. We like to learn as much as we can about this whole sexuality level and then tweak it to our tastes. Not being a man, I find male sexuality to be extremely interesting and fascinating. A piece of your body that grows when you are sexually… Continue reading How Long Should It Take?
In my previous blog, I posted a quiz which used a few questions to determine if male chastity might be right for your relationship. Approximately 89% of respondents were determined to be a good fit for male chastity. Remember that my methods are highly unscientific and the fact that this quiz is on a site… Continue reading Chastity Statistics
Happy Father’s Day to all you dads out there. Just a quick blog to remind us to be playful all throughout the year. The ability to joke and play is no reflection on your masculinity, your femininity, your abilities as a mother or as a father. Play is play and it makes life fun. Society… Continue reading Relationship At Play
The honor system has been working well for us and I don’t believe that Kevin has done anything behind my back but I miss the cage so it is making an appearance in our lives once again. No reason, I was responding to a comment from a user named Joe20 yesterday and realized how much… Continue reading Feeling Frisky
Humiliation is a varied thing amongst men. Some guys really enjoy it. Some guys like it in small, teasing doses. Some guys crave it when locked up as an assertion of their submissiveness in the relationship. Depending on your guy it can be great fun or it can be offensive and hurtful. We should start… Continue reading Humiliation
We’ve been trying a mixed bag of things in our relationship and I’ve been diligently documenting things for you all to enjoy. Some things have worked and others haven’t worked as well. Some things are more around the fetish side of things and others are essential to maintaining your feminine power in the relationship. Aside… Continue reading Does it work?