Let me set the stage. You are fully clothed and sitting at the table with a glass of your favorite red wine, brightly colored markers and a blank white sheet of paper. Your fella is standing a few feet from you, completely nude facing you with his flaccid penis dangling between his legs. You aren’t… Continue reading Let’s Draw His Penis: An Exercise in Artistry and Sexy Humiliation
In countless previous blogs, I’ve discussed the merits of separating sex from ejaculation. I’ve received comments that make it seem impossible but it really isn’t that difficult. The problem is getting started and changing what you’ve taken for granted all of these years. Soaking is an interesting concept of inserting a penis into a vagina… Continue reading Soaking: The Dock and Talk Approach
I’ve hesitated to post anything about our new living situation for the last couple weeks because it is new and I really needed to take some time to let it all sink in. Some of the things that were criticisms initially turned out to be some of the more intriguing nuances of living as three.… Continue reading Then There Were Three
For those of you that haven’t been following the blog religiously for the last few months, I’ll catch you up to speed on the recent developments in my life. Kevin and I met a neighbor named Andrew and we’ve taken quite a liking to him. At this point, I affectionately call him “a boyfriend”. I… Continue reading Moving In
Due to the popularity of my post about pegging becoming more mainstream in movies and television, I decided to do a post about pegging comedy. Pegging in itself can be dirty and strapping a rubber penis to yourself is admittedly silly. If you are ever in doubt, just strap-up and walk around the bedroom wiggling… Continue reading Pegging Comedy: Videos Jokes and Memes
Remember ladies, it is almost Locktober. Time to lock your boy up! -Me How does something as simple as a key become sexy? We use various keys to get into our house, start our car and even use the yucky gas station restroom. How did keys become a symbol for love? A key is a… Continue reading Locktober: Keys Are Sexy
So he put his willy in a little metal thing for a few days. Big deal. At the beginning of our journey, I didn’t really understand how big of a deal this was to him. As chastity has become a part of our every day life, I have developed a greater understanding for the power… Continue reading Sacrifices in Female Led Partnerships
In my relationship, male chastity is a godsend and I preach the benefits from the highest mountaintop. We use it as a tool to keep our relationship exciting, fun, intimate and loving. There is no rule book for chastity and we’ve had some trials and tribulations as Kevin and I have walked this road together.… Continue reading Male Chastity: A Recipe For Resentment?
The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to your relationship. Ultimately the cage and accompanying key symbolize that the man is willing to hand over control for the very organ that defines him as a man. Handing over control… Continue reading The Ideal Penis is… Locked!
When your guy is locked up, communication about his state is important. His level of desire and the importance and urgency of ejaculation is first and foremost on his mind. The rules that you establish together most likely prevent him from constantly pestering you about his current condition and his perceived urgency to “get off”.… Continue reading The Number System