I’d first like to thank Ruined-Julie for contributing this post. Full disclosure, Kevin and I tried the ruined orgasm and it didn’t work well for us. Julie’s writing certainly makes me want to give it another try. I did some quick editing but not too much. Thanks again Julie! The “ruined orgasm” is a sexual… Continue reading What is a Ruined Orgasm?
In my previous blog about antisocial distancing, I talked about physical touch and separated it from sex. In this one I will do just the opposite. What about when touching your sexy bits isn’t about sex at all. I started researching tantra and massage shortly after posting our tantric troll’s story. Lingam Massage The penis… Continue reading Tantra – Touch and Sex
My last couple blogs have turned into erotic novels and while that isn’t the typical content of the site, I certainly enjoyed writing it. Based on the positive feedback, perhaps I’ve missed my calling as an erotic novel author. Who knows. Kevin is my boyfriend slash partner slash unofficial fiance and I love him dearly.… Continue reading Our Boyfriend
In my previous blog, I talked about meeting Andrew and the game of table tennis that led to an exciting friendship. If you haven’t read that blog, I highly recommend that you start there. It was roughly three days after first meeting Andrew when Kevin suggested that we reach out to him. Kevin had been… Continue reading Ping Pong 2
I’ve hesitated to post this too quickly but knew I would post it sooner or later since typing my thoughts tends to give me a sort of mental clarity. I love all of you and really enjoy running this blog but I selfishly gain a greater understanding of myself by being forced to compose my… Continue reading Ping Pong
For those of you who have been around a while, you know that I’m never one to be afraid of feeding the trolls. Something about the the site or my experiences with Kevin must trigger people. In any case, I received the comment below and decided to publish it as a blog to encourage discussion… Continue reading Tantric Trolls
Which is better? I’ll go against everything that I have ever been told and begin with the conclusion. The plastic or resin cage is lighter weight and typically will not set off metal detectors. It is also more resistant to changes in temperature and this typically makes it more comfortable for the wearer. Cracking, snapping… Continue reading Plastic or Metal
Admittedly I am a huge nerd. Kevin and I have all the home automation gadgets. Wifi outlets, lights that change color with an app and we both carry conversations with virtual assistants way more than we should admit. When I got an email from QIUI informing us about the Cell Mate Bluetooth device, I was… Continue reading Cell Mate Bluetooth Cage
Spiked Cages Wait. What? You read that correctly. This is a post about cages with pokey bits on the inside. Why on earth would you want to add uncomfortable sharpness? For us, this is all in good fun, nobody got hurt [too badly]. This blog started as a review of this interesting cage but turned… Continue reading Spiky Objects
It is like a combination of Mother’s Day, Valentine’s Day and Christmas all in one. Don’t miss out on this wonderful opportunity to try something new to rekindle things or dust off the cage and bring chastity back into your relationship. There has never been an easier way to get loads of extra attention and… Continue reading Male Chastity Day 2020
