Having Fun With It · Medical · Sexuality

Fetish Definitions: I’ve got a philia that you’re gonna like some of these

Paraphilia – The sexual arousal to atypical objects, situations, fantasies, behaviors, or individuals. Objectophilia – Sexual or romantic attraction focused on particular inanimate objects. Mechaphilia/Mechanophilia – Interest/Attraction towards mechanic/technological objects. Agalmatophilia – Sexual attraction to a statue, doll, mannequin or other similar figurative object. Dollification – Wanting to be transformed into a doll. Robot Fetishism (ASFR) – A fetishistic attraction… Continue reading Fetish Definitions: I’ve got a philia that you’re gonna like some of these

About Him · Having Fun With It · Sexuality

Be careful fellas, the witches might steal your penis!

This isn’t going to be a blog about a dominatrix permanently locking a man’s penis. This is going to be a blog about history and the male obsession with their penis. In my attempts to understand some of the obsessions and superstitions around our taboo baby making parts, I ran across some gems that I… Continue reading Be careful fellas, the witches might steal your penis!

Chastity & Orgasm Denial · Having Fun With It

Orgasm Denial: Starting Slow With “No-Nut Night”

Male orgasm denial has many benefits that we’ve covered on this blog, the male and female orgasms are very different. The female orgasm is designed to promote closeness and pair bonding while the male orgasm is intended to push the man along to the next mating opportunity. The female orgasm gives you those magical feelings… Continue reading Orgasm Denial: Starting Slow With “No-Nut Night”

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Let’s Draw His Penis: An Exercise in Artistry and Sexy Humiliation

Let me set the stage. You are fully clothed and sitting at the table with a glass of your favorite red wine, brightly colored markers and a blank white sheet of paper. Your fella is standing a few feet from you, completely nude facing you with his flaccid penis dangling between his legs. You aren’t… Continue reading Let’s Draw His Penis: An Exercise in Artistry and Sexy Humiliation

Getting Started · Having Fun With It · Sexuality

Soaking: The Dock and Talk Approach

In countless previous blogs, I’ve discussed the merits of separating sex from ejaculation. I’ve received comments that make it seem impossible but it really isn’t that difficult. The problem is getting started and changing what you’ve taken for granted all of these years. Soaking is an interesting concept of inserting a penis into a vagina… Continue reading Soaking: The Dock and Talk Approach