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From Burnout to Comeback: A Year of Chaos, Recovery, and Growth

As 2025 winds down, I want to be real with you before I start talking about what next year will bring. December did not end the way I planned....

Rebecca’s Game

A rainy Saturday night. Wine poured, music soft, and an old, slightly battered board game spread across the coffee table like a ritual from another life. Rebecca curled her...

The Three Levels of Cuckolding: C1, C2, and C3 Explained

Cuckolding isn’t a one-size-fits-all kink or lifestyle. Like any form of erotic or emotional exploration, it evolves in stages. That’s why I love to break it down into three...

Yours Completely: A Male Chastity Story

Jack didn’t know when exactly the idea had taken root. Maybe it was during one of those quiet, lopsided conversations where he did most of the talking—trying to bridge...

I Want to Feel the Fire Again

I said it. I said it out loud. Not flippantly, not joking, not as a kink or fantasy whispered in the dark—but as a declaration. I sat across from...

The Evolution of Intimacy: The Slippery Slope of Submission

Let’s talk about the slippery slope—yes, that slope. The one where a man starts to open up sexually to his wife about his desire to be submissive. It might...

Her Game, My Place

Haruki laid on the bed, legs crossed, TV remote resting limply in his hand. The screen played some mindless sitcom, laugh track and all, but he wasn't watching. He...

Why Women Lose Desire and the Lifehack to Bring it Back

It’s one of those quiet little tragedies of the long-term relationship—when you still adore him, laugh at his jokes, love his cooking, and yet... you just don’t want him...

The Clothes Stay in the Car: A CFNM Camping Trip

It was supposed to be a simple, rustic weekend getaway. Just two couples—Meg and Daniel, Tara and Kirk—pitching a tent by a quiet forest lake and getting off the...

Ask Emma: Why Are You So Obsessed With Creampie Cleanup?

Hi EmmaI’m a fan of your site and I have been for a long time, but I have a curious question that might be a little off the beaten...

What Sex Means to Me: A Revelation

Hi friends! I wrote a blog a while back about what sex means to me. I talked about pleasure, connection, vulnerability, power — all the stuff that gets us...

Rekindled By Rivalry – Part 3

It was the second date. Only this time, Darius was picking Sabrina up. Ray watched from the window as she applied her lipstick—her favorite deep plum, the one she used to wear when they first started dating,

How To Stay Sexually Engaged After the Newness Fades: Exploring Modern Marriage Dynamics

Every relationship eventually hits the moment when the “new” wears off. That electric excitement, the mystery, the nervous anticipation of skin-on-skin for the first time? It fades. Not because...

Ask Emma: Should I Tell My Husband to Get a Surrogate Sex Partner?

Hi Emma,I’m at my wits end with my husband because we have completely mismatched sex drives. I like sex maybe once a month. That’s it. He wants it more...

Rekindled By Rivalry – Part 2

Ray hadn’t forgotten what Sabrina did that night at the club. Not at all. If anything, it stayed with him in this low, burning way—quiet, persistent, and totally inconvenient.

Her New Favorite View

I’d been holding onto the little box for three weeks before I finally gave it to Mark. The brown cardboard box wasn’t wrapped. I didn’t want it to look...

Veronica’s Loving Ritual

A Female Led Screenplay Scene 1 – At Her Lover’s House Jason (smirking):So… your husband’s probably asleep by now. Veronica (panting, grinning wickedly):Mmm… of course. That’s the beauty of it. I get...

Maintaining Masculine Polarity in a Cuckold Relationship

Cuckolding is one of those dynamics that often gets misunderstood. Say the word and most people picture the husband as emasculated, feminized, or stripped of his authority. They imagine...

A Cuckold Manifesto: Why I Want a Boyfriend—and How It Will Bring Us Closer

My Love, We’ve been circling this conversation for so long now. Whispering around it at night. Dropping hints in the middle of our fantasies. Teasing it in our dirty talk....

I’m Not Gay, I’m Terrified: How Fear and Shame Create an Intense Sexual High

I'm going to start this one with an analogy because I love analogies. Think about skydiving. Most people don’t do it because they love falling, they do it for...

Unlock Stronger Sexual Magnetism: The Astonishing Power of Panties on Your Man

I know this might sound strange to some, but male sexuality can feel imposing. It’s not that I don’t desire it or that I’m not turned on by it...

Conquering the Gag Reflex: Turning a Challenge Into Pleasure and Play

Hey everyone, it’s Emma here. I want to share a journey that Kev and I went through and how it completely transformed our oral play and yet another progression...

Modern Marriage: A Foundation of Confidence for Women and Men

Let’s talk confidence. Not the fake-it-till-you-make-it kind or the polished, snapchat filtered, hashtag empowerment kind. I mean real, grounded, soul-deep confidence that radiates from how we live, love, and...

Motorcycle Malcom: A Story of Love, Control, and Erotic Symbiosis

Tamara wasn’t the kind of woman who liked to leave things unspoken. Words were her favorite tool. She knew the weight of them, the sharpness of them, the way...

Erection Play: The Art of Keeping Him on Edge

There’s something intoxicating about watching a man unravel under your touch, not just physically, but emotionally. His breath quickens, his body responds, but underneath it all, you can feel...

What is CFNM? An interview with Marie CFNM

For those of you who are not familiar with CFNM, it is a type of scenario where women are clothed and men are nude....

Punishment & Correction

2020 Update - this blog was written over a year ago and I decided not to take it down but it doesn't really represent...

Lazy Husband? 5 steps to motivate him to be a better partner

Do you have a husband who is lazy & unmotivated? Are you looking for ways to help regain some excitement in your marriage and...

Male Chastity: Getting comfortable with a locked husband or boyfriend

One of the more challenging parts of incorporating chastity into your otherwise vanilla relationship is getting comfortable with a lock and key becoming part...

Be your husband’s ultimate fantasy!

We evolve men, that's just what we do around here at the EYM palace. Sometimes you evolve your man so much and you decide...

Introduction: Taking the Reins

Managing modern relationships can be difficult for both genders. Women can find this especially challenging due to all of the expectations of today's woman....

The Ideal Penis is… Locked!

The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to...

Ask Agni: A Wife’s Perspective About Male Chastity

Male chastity and strict orgasm control became an important part of my hubby’s experience last summer. Before you decide to lock up your hubby’s penis,...

FLR101 – Read this first

I'm a professional woman with a science and medical background as a primary care provider.  Don't take the fact that I'm a care provider...

Yes. I Cuckold My Husband: My Perspective

This blog is intended to be a followup to my popular "What is the appeal of a hotwife relationship". While it should read just...
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