Relationships

Playful & Silly: The key to a lasting and loving relationship!

I was at a local coffee shop and saw the cutest old couple sipping their coffee and staring lovingly into each other’s eyes. As I sat with my coffee and watched as they were deeply engaged in conversation and focused on each other. I thought to myself, these two are clearly still enamored with each… Continue reading Playful & Silly: The key to a lasting and loving relationship!

About Him · Getting Started · Relationships · Sexuality

How can I be a good husband to my wife?

The fact that you are even asking how you can be a better husband speaks volumes. In this blog you will find conventional wisdom supplemented some unconventional ways to be a better partner. Being the best husband is ultimately about waking up every morning and making a conscious decision to be a wonderful partner. The… Continue reading How can I be a good husband to my wife?

About Her · About Him · Relationships · Sexuality

Can cuckolding be a validation of his love for you?

This won’t be a blog to validate non-monogamy or cuckolding, that is a topic for another day. In this blog I am simply exploring the appeal among men and women for a cuckold type relationship. Cuckolding for those new to the conversation is when a woman has sex with another man outside her primary relationship.… Continue reading Can cuckolding be a validation of his love for you?

Relationships · Sexuality

Is your marriage symbiotic or parasitic?

The world around us is full of mutually beneficial symbiotic relationships! Think of the bee and the flower, barnacles on whales the list goes on and on. Now think of parasitic relationships, fleas on dogs, mosquitos on humans or aphids on plants. When you think of your relationship, which comes to mind? Clearly there is… Continue reading Is your marriage symbiotic or parasitic?

About Him · Chastity & Orgasm Denial · Relationships

Men: Tell her exactly how you can be her best partner!

There is a big disconnect in the world of male chastity. Men like to hint to their partner about wanting to be locked up. In many cases the men simply show the woman a link to a cock cage and say something cryptic like “I want you to lock me up”. Ok but why? The… Continue reading Men: Tell her exactly how you can be her best partner!

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Modern Marriage: A wonderful sex life is not optional!

It is no secret that marriages are difficult. In fact; up to 63% of marriages end in divorce according to a recent statistic. That statistic was before the pandemic and I know that Covid has been very difficult for many couples as well. There are many components of a successful marriage such as communication, intimacy,… Continue reading Modern Marriage: A wonderful sex life is not optional!

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How big of a problem is his masturbation?

Many girlfriends and wives know that their man masturbates but they may not know the extent of the problem. Once or twice a week, what’s the big deal? The problem is the hormonal impact of his masturbation on the quality of your relationship. I found a free app that I’d invite all of you to… Continue reading How big of a problem is his masturbation?

Pegging & Role Reversal · Relationships · Sexuality

What the heck are reverse pegging and fauxing?

We all know that pegging is when a woman penetrates her (typically) male partner with a strap-on. Reverse is the opposite of that with the man wearing the strap-on harness and penetrating the female. Both of these allow the female to experience the pleasure of sexual penetration while the male does not. Both of these… Continue reading What the heck are reverse pegging and fauxing?

About Him · Chastity & Orgasm Denial · Relationships

Modern Marriage: 5 Ways to Flip His Perspective

We all know that negative reinforcement doesn’t work and chastity cages are not meant as a punishment; at least not the way that I recommend using them. You can choose to see it as taking his sexual freedom away or you can opt to see it as liberating him from a negative sexual feedback loop.… Continue reading Modern Marriage: 5 Ways to Flip His Perspective