Pegging & Role Reversal · Relationships · Sexuality

What the heck are reverse pegging and fauxing?

We all know that pegging is when a woman penetrates her (typically) male partner with a strap-on. Reverse is the opposite of that with the man wearing the strap-on harness and penetrating the female. Both of these allow the female to experience the pleasure of sexual penetration while the male does not. Both of these… Continue reading What the heck are reverse pegging and fauxing?

About Him · Chastity & Orgasm Denial · Relationships

Modern Marriage: 5 Ways to Flip His Perspective

We all know that negative reinforcement doesn’t work and chastity cages are not meant as a punishment; at least not the way that I recommend using them. You can choose to see it as taking his sexual freedom away or you can opt to see it as liberating him from a negative sexual feedback loop.… Continue reading Modern Marriage: 5 Ways to Flip His Perspective

Chastity & Orgasm Denial · Relationships

Relationships: One very simple solution to get a night owl and an early bird on the same schedule

I’ve always been an early riser. I get up bright and early every morning while Kev is up late every night. Watching movies, playing video games, whatever he does. I like to get up early and start my day with the sun and end my day when the sun is going down. Approximately 25 percent… Continue reading Relationships: One very simple solution to get a night owl and an early bird on the same schedule

About Him · Discipline · Relationships

New Stay At Home Partner: 10 Tips To Set Relationship Expectations

The stay at home spouse is an increasingly popular role as families adapt to the absence of in-person school. Many men and women are choosing to take a step back from work and focus on the family. As I write this blog, I will do my best to keep it gender neutral since it applies… Continue reading New Stay At Home Partner: 10 Tips To Set Relationship Expectations

About Him · Chastity & Orgasm Denial · Relationships

Lazy Husband? 5 steps to motivate him to be a better partner

Do you have a husband who is lazy & unmotivated? Are you looking for ways to help regain some excitement in your marriage and in his day to day. Men can be absolutely amazing. Do you remember how he was when you first started dating? He was just like the man he is today but… Continue reading Lazy Husband? 5 steps to motivate him to be a better partner

About Her · About Him · Non-Monogamy · Relationships

Husbands: You are not enough

As I learn more about my sexuality and about how both males and females are wired, I have to question our society’s husband and wife normative. I understand that the world is roughly equal in terms of the ratio of males (50.4%) and females (49.6%). With that ratio, a 1:1 pair bonded ratio makes sense… Continue reading Husbands: You are not enough

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Dominant Female: Mothering your partner?

In some cases, men who desire a FLR had a mother who was quite stern. In seeking a dominant female such as yourself, they are looking to replace the female authority that makes them comfortable. While finding female authority comfortable if that was the relationship role model he had isn’t bad, it can be important… Continue reading Dominant Female: Mothering your partner?

About Her · Non-Monogamy · Relationships · Sexuality

Sitting One Out: You Don’t Always Need to Participate

There is a relationship between all emotions but compersion and jealousy have one of the most unique. Jealousy is a beast of an emotion since jealousy in the context of a relationship produces many secondary emotions such as fear, suspicion, rage and humiliation. Compersion on the other hand is joy and empathy in the happiness… Continue reading Sitting One Out: You Don’t Always Need to Participate

Non-Monogamy · Relationships

Why are so many men afraid of doing anything sexual around other men?

My boyfriend Kev and I invited our mutual friend Andrew to stay with us for what we expected to be a few months. A few months turned in to nearly a year but we had a great time! We really did have a great time together and we all seemed to mesh well together, both… Continue reading Why are so many men afraid of doing anything sexual around other men?