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Introduction: Taking the Reins

Managing modern relationships can be difficult for both genders. Women can find this especially challenging due to all of the expectations of today’s woman. I don’t know about you but finding a guy who is appreciative of what we go through is challenging if not impossible. I was working on a master’s program in the… Continue reading Introduction: Taking the Reins

About Him · Chastity & Orgasm Denial

Orgasm Denial: Is Denying Your Husband’s Orgasm Manipulative?

There is little question that orgasm denial is manipulation of something by someone. The real question is whether you are manipulating something (the body) or someone (the husband). Specifically, what exactly is being manipulated? The word manipulative is typically used in the negative context but is it really negative all of the time? The dictionary… Continue reading Orgasm Denial: Is Denying Your Husband’s Orgasm Manipulative?

About Her · Non-Monogamy · Relationships · Sexuality

Sitting One Out: You Don’t Always Need to Participate

There is a relationship between all emotions but compersion and jealousy have one of the most unique. Jealousy is a beast of an emotion since jealousy in the context of a relationship produces many secondary emotions such as fear, suspicion, rage and humiliation. Compersion on the other hand is joy and empathy in the happiness… Continue reading Sitting One Out: You Don’t Always Need to Participate

Non-Monogamy · Relationships

Why are so many men afraid of doing anything sexual around other men?

My boyfriend Kev and I invited our mutual friend Andrew to stay with us for what we expected to be a few months. A few months turned in to nearly a year but we had a great time! We really did have a great time together and we all seemed to mesh well together, both… Continue reading Why are so many men afraid of doing anything sexual around other men?

Chastity & Orgasm Denial

Chastity Fetish: My Husband Wants Me to Lock Him Up

I don’t know your husband but my guess is that he is willing to do nearly anything to make you feel loved and supported. I am also guessing that you and your husband may not be completely aligned when it comes to love languages. When you are really hurting or feeling alone, he can usually… Continue reading Chastity Fetish: My Husband Wants Me to Lock Him Up

Chastity & Orgasm Denial

Taking Charge: How it Makes Him Feel

Strong women are typically honest, independent, confident and they aren’t afraid to be themselves. I haven’t always felt the level of confidence that I do now. Confidence was especially hard to find during high school while I was finding myself. Once I found myself, I realized that I am pretty happy with the person that… Continue reading Taking Charge: How it Makes Him Feel

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What do women want in a relationship?

The question that has been asked a million times in a million different ways. I am not going to attempt to answer it because the question shouldn’t need to be asked in a relationship with proper communication. This isn’t about what I want for dinner, this is about the traits that I find attractive. What… Continue reading What do women want in a relationship?