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Lazy Husband? 5 steps to motivate him to be a better partner

Do you have a husband who is lazy & unmotivated? Are you looking for ways to help regain some excitement in your marriage and in his day to day. Men can be absolutely amazing. Do you remember how he was when you first started dating? He was just like the man he is today but… Continue reading Lazy Husband? 5 steps to motivate him to be a better partner

About Him · Chastity & Orgasm Denial · Relationships

Modern Marriage: 5 Ways to Flip His Perspective

We all know that negative reinforcement doesn’t work and chastity cages are not meant as a punishment; at least not the way that I recommend using them. You can choose to see it as taking his sexual freedom away or you can opt to see it as liberating him from a negative sexual feedback loop.… Continue reading Modern Marriage: 5 Ways to Flip His Perspective

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Modern Marriage: Using chastity as a tool and not a weapon

In some relationships, the cage is used as a tool to coerce the man to proactively be something or act a certain way. In other relationships the cage can be used as a way to punish the husband or atone for an action or lack of action. One of these is a proactive and positive… Continue reading Modern Marriage: Using chastity as a tool and not a weapon

Chastity & Orgasm Denial · Relationships

Relationships: One very simple solution to get a night owl and an early bird on the same schedule

I’ve always been an early riser. I get up bright and early every morning while Kev is up late every night. Watching movies, playing video games, whatever he does. I like to get up early and start my day with the sun and end my day when the sun is going down. Approximately 25 percent… Continue reading Relationships: One very simple solution to get a night owl and an early bird on the same schedule

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New Stay At Home Partner: 10 Tips To Set Relationship Expectations

The stay at home spouse is an increasingly popular role as families adapt to the absence of in-person school. Many men and women are choosing to take a step back from work and focus on the family. As I write this blog, I will do my best to keep it gender neutral since it applies… Continue reading New Stay At Home Partner: 10 Tips To Set Relationship Expectations

Pegging & Role Reversal

Pegging: Surrender Your Body to Her

I previously wrote about pegging positions and that continues to be one of the most popular blogs on the site. After writing that, I realized that positions actually very little to do with technique. While that blog was useful, the physical position actually has less to do with a loving an intimate experience than a… Continue reading Pegging: Surrender Your Body to Her

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Sex Ratios: What if the global ratio of males and females changed?

The ratio of men and women in the world is remarkably similar with males being only slightly more common than females. In some countries the ratio is slightly higher than others but it doesn’t change much and hasn’t over the course of recorded history. You can read more about the distribution of chromosomes and the… Continue reading Sex Ratios: What if the global ratio of males and females changed?

Chastity & Orgasm Denial · Having Fun With It

Orgasm Denial: Starting Slow With “No-Nut Night”

Male orgasm denial has many benefits that we’ve covered on this blog, the male and female orgasms are very different. The female orgasm is designed to promote closeness and pair bonding while the male orgasm is intended to push the man along to the next mating opportunity. The female orgasm gives you those magical feelings… Continue reading Orgasm Denial: Starting Slow With “No-Nut Night”