Blog · Getting Started

Introduction: Taking the Reins

Managing modern relationships can be difficult for both genders. Women can find this especially challenging due to all of the expectations of today’s woman. I don’t know about you but finding a guy who is appreciative of what we go through is challenging if not impossible. I was working on a master’s program in the… Continue reading Introduction: Taking the Reins

Chastity & Orgasm Denial

Male Chastity: Selecting the Correct Size For Your Cock Cage

The perfect cage would perfectly encapsulate the penis at its most flaccid state without creating discomfort as the penis swells to its erect state. The cage is not a torture device, it is simply to prevent arousal and access to the organ. The cage should also not inhibit cleanliness or urination since those are essential… Continue reading Male Chastity: Selecting the Correct Size For Your Cock Cage

About Him · Discipline

House Husband: Setting Expectations With a Written Agreement

The role of staying home to take care of the household is nothing new and the role itself is gender neutral but traditionally female. After posting my interview with Vikter, a stay at home dad I received more than a few inquiries from both men and women. Men were fascinated by the role and the… Continue reading House Husband: Setting Expectations With a Written Agreement

Having Fun With It

Let’s Draw His Penis: An Exercise in Artistry and Sexy Humiliation

Let me set the stage. You are fully clothed and sitting at the table with a glass of your favorite red wine, brightly colored markers and a blank white sheet of paper. Your fella is standing a few feet from you, completely nude facing you with his flaccid penis dangling between his legs. You aren’t… Continue reading Let’s Draw His Penis: An Exercise in Artistry and Sexy Humiliation

About Her · About Him

Masturbation Fantasies: Can Porn Break Our Imagination?

What do you think of when you masturbate? Sometimes I fantasize about an elaborate romantic fantasy usually in black and white like an old movie. Sometimes I imagine an intimate encounter with someone I recognize, sometimes with a past lover and other times with a complete stranger. When I’m short on time or especially determined… Continue reading Masturbation Fantasies: Can Porn Break Our Imagination?

Getting Started · Having Fun With It · Sexuality

Soaking: The Dock and Talk Approach

In countless previous blogs, I’ve discussed the merits of separating sex from ejaculation. I’ve received comments that make it seem impossible but it really isn’t that difficult. The problem is getting started and changing what you’ve taken for granted all of these years. Soaking is an interesting concept of inserting a penis into a vagina… Continue reading Soaking: The Dock and Talk Approach

About Her · About Him · Medical · Sexuality

The Male Orgasm is a Finite Resource

The male orgasm is interesting when I compare it to my own. I can have seven or eight orgasms before I simply feel too exhausted (and sore) to go on. Despite that, my arousal stays generally the same during and after each orgasm even increasing from one to the next. On the male side, the… Continue reading The Male Orgasm is a Finite Resource

About Her · About Him

Gender Balance and Understanding: Using Pegging as a Tool

Within each of us there are two sides; the female side and the male side. A combination of different feminine and masculine parts to make you the person that you are. A gender balance or a yin yang of sorts. This is normal, this is just fine and neither side is superior to the other.… Continue reading Gender Balance and Understanding: Using Pegging as a Tool