Blog · Getting Started

Introduction: Taking the Reins

Managing modern relationships can be difficult for both genders. Women can find this especially challenging due to all of the expectations of today’s woman. I don’t know about you but finding a guy who is appreciative of what we go through is challenging if not impossible. I was working on a master’s program in the… Continue reading Introduction: Taking the Reins

About Him

What Male Need Does Chastity Satisfy

We’ve exhaustively covered how amazing male chastity is for women. Spoiler; he will be a more caring and attentive lover. For many couples, this is sufficient motivation. We were discussing this in our home yesterday and while Kevin and I love the positive benefits of his behavior in our relationship, Andrew expressed confusion about the… Continue reading What Male Need Does Chastity Satisfy

About Her · Non-Monogamy

What is Slut Shaming and Why is She Such a Slut?

Wikipedia says that slut-shaming is the practice of criticizing women based upon the sexual expectations of others. I’ve gotten my share of raised eyebrows due to our living situation. In fact the leasing office for our apartment had to get “authorization” to rent a one bedroom to three people when we told them of our… Continue reading What is Slut Shaming and Why is She Such a Slut?

Pegging & Role Reversal

How Coronavirus Changed Our Marriage For The Better

This is a story about TanjaNest, a reader that recently joined the site. Like so many of us, Covid-19 forced some changes on her family. A huge thanks to Tanja for sharing her story. This is all very new to her so feel free to reach out with any praise, questions or support for her.… Continue reading How Coronavirus Changed Our Marriage For The Better

About Her

An Affair Made Me a Better Wife and Mother

This blog entry isn’t about me, it is paraphrased from a few different blogs that I’ve read. The content reflects things that I’ve heard from personal friends and from LOTS of women who have emailed me over the last year. Although I am not a wife nor a mother I’ll do my best to channel… Continue reading An Affair Made Me a Better Wife and Mother

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Sexual Contingent Self-Worth

People base their self esteem on many different things including their job, material possessions and interpersonal relationships. If their job is going well, they feel good about themselves. If their relationships with friends are going well, they feel good about themselves. For many of us, including myself, sex is an enormous indicator of how I… Continue reading Sexual Contingent Self-Worth

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An Introspective: Why do I write what I write?

Can you imagine walking into a relationship counselor for couples counseling. Let me set the scene; a strip-mall office, some counseling degrees hanging on the wall, fake ficus trees, fragrant odor of a glade plug in air freshener, leather couch. You get the idea. Now imagine that you and your partner walk into the office,… Continue reading An Introspective: Why do I write what I write?