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The thing we have done, we will have sex, wife acts like she enjoying it and I finish. After a minute, she says, “you done?”. I say, “yes, I am completely finished”. She rolls over and gets a dildo that is longer and lot bigger around than I am, along with a vibrator. She uses some lube and uses both toys to have a huge orgasm. Me watching with a shriveled, little wet penis.
Light cuckolding helped me a lot to get him to talk about his feelings and contributed enormously to his role in our FLR relationship. His openness gave me sufficient leads to integrate him into my vision of FLR. Of course he was excited by the cuckolding light experience, but I personally thought the step to real cuckolding was too early. we started with swinging, but that turned out to be a fiasco. He couldn’t handle the freedom and his behavior changed, the so nicely built up FLR relationship was under pressure. He tried to pick up his old life again. Fortunately, with a lot of effort I was able to turn the tide again. It took me half a year to get the FLR relationship going again. Must admit that the chastity belt helped a lot. I started to prepare him for real cuckolding. The light version put him in a good mood.
Over a long weekend, I flirted with an older attractive man. In our light version it was often about an older man because they have more experience. Nonsense of course! But an older experienced man was my game to make it clear to him that he was inexperienced. He clearly enjoyed that humiliation. The guy chatted with us at the bar, I offered him a drink. He made some comments about my appearance and I accepted his advances. When my husband was away for a while, he asked if my husband didn’t mind flirting. I briefly told him about the dynamics of our relationship and told him you can seduce me. I was shocked by my own words. The man nodded and put his hand on my thigh just as my husband came back. Perfect timing. I had a great evening and then of course night.
I had a great evening and then of course night. The light version became the real life version.
I had a great evening and then of course night. The light version became the real life version. Never regretted. Now years later still together in a perfect FLR relationship
These are some fun ideas, can’t wait to try it out. Although, I’m a little apprehensive. I guess that’s the point. Glad to see you back.
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I‘m sorry to hear you have had health problems, Emma, but I’m glad you are on the mend. Thank you for another insightful post. Paradoxically, the best sex I have ever experienced has come from the combination of being cuckolded then teased by my wife about the inadequacy of my cock compared to the other guy‘s. You make an excellent point that a big part of the turn-on is that a woman seems supremely confident and powerful when she does that…at least in the eyes of a man who is wired for sexual submission.
Thank you for this post and especially the “Mr. Hour Man” comments that apply to me. I’ve learned it can be a blessing as well as a curse, and I haven’t seen this particular issue discussed much. You gave us some good ideas about dealing with it – we’ve talked, I’ve learned more about her thoughts, we’ve come up with some of our own ideas, and we’ve had some fun with the timer a couple of times. I’m looking forward to more experimenting!
(P.S. I was happy to discover your site a few months ago; I’ve been lurking but ready to engage more now.)
Welcome to the site! We’ve had a few people that have learned ways to turn the Mr Hour Man (delayed ejaculation) into a positive for their relationship. Happy Reading!
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My very first experience was with my ex wife who one night after her sisters coed bachelor party, that included her soon to be brother in law’s younger brother being naked half the night, and rocking a 6-7” thick flaccid cock, my wife and I are fooling around on the way home and she dares me to drive nude. I bring up the hung guy and she giggles as she looks at me. She proceeds to tell me how size matters and I am her smallest ever, and asked if we could stop by the sex store. We buy a strap on that’s hollow, and I fuck her with it and she starts squirting so much as she orgasms she apologizing as she’s cumming. I tell her it’s ok that I love it and afterwards she tells me how I’m too small to give her an orgasm and after seeing me ok with her being honest she’s playing with my 1” soft one and starts making me tell her my feelings. Eventually getting me to apologize for my tiny penis and promising her to use the toy going forward. And it’s grown from that point. Not my penis, but my desire to be humiliated for my size.
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