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Orgasm Denial: Is Denying Your Husband’s Orgasm Manipulative?

There is little question that orgasm denial is manipulation of something by someone. The real question is whether you are manipulating something (the body) or someone (the husband). Specifically, what exactly is being manipulated? The word manipulative is typically used in the negative context but is it really negative all of the time? The dictionary… Continue reading Orgasm Denial: Is Denying Your Husband’s Orgasm Manipulative?

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House Husband: Setting Expectations With a Written Agreement

The role of staying home to take care of the household is nothing new and the role itself is gender neutral but traditionally female. After posting my interview with Vikter, a stay at home dad I received more than a few inquiries from both men and women. Men were fascinated by the role and the… Continue reading House Husband: Setting Expectations With a Written Agreement

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Masturbation Fantasies: Can Porn Break Our Imagination?

What do you think of when you masturbate? Sometimes I fantasize about an elaborate romantic fantasy usually in black and white like an old movie. Sometimes I imagine an intimate encounter with someone I recognize, sometimes with a past lover and other times with a complete stranger. When I’m short on time or especially determined… Continue reading Masturbation Fantasies: Can Porn Break Our Imagination?

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The Male Orgasm is a Finite Resource

The male orgasm is interesting when I compare it to my own. I can have seven or eight orgasms before I simply feel too exhausted (and sore) to go on. Despite that, my arousal stays generally the same during and after each orgasm even increasing from one to the next. On the male side, the… Continue reading The Male Orgasm is a Finite Resource

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Gender Balance and Understanding: Using Pegging as a Tool

Within each of us there are two sides; the female side and the male side. A combination of different feminine and masculine parts to make you the person that you are. A gender balance or a yin yang of sorts. This is normal, this is just fine and neither side is superior to the other.… Continue reading Gender Balance and Understanding: Using Pegging as a Tool

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What Male Need Does Chastity Satisfy

We’ve exhaustively covered how amazing male chastity is for women. Spoiler; he will be a more caring and attentive lover. For many couples, this is sufficient motivation. We were discussing this in our home yesterday and while Kevin and I love the positive benefits of his behavior in our relationship, Andrew expressed confusion about the… Continue reading What Male Need Does Chastity Satisfy

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Male Chastity: A Recipe For Resentment?

In my relationship, male chastity is a godsend and I preach the benefits from the highest mountaintop. We use it as a tool to keep our relationship exciting, fun, intimate and loving. There is no rule book for chastity and we’ve had some trials and tribulations as Kevin and I have walked this road together.… Continue reading Male Chastity: A Recipe For Resentment?