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How can I be a good husband to my wife?

The fact that you are even asking how you can be a better husband speaks volumes. In this blog you will find conventional wisdom supplemented some unconventional ways to be a better partner. Being the best husband is ultimately about waking up every morning and making a conscious decision to be a wonderful partner. The… Continue reading How can I be a good husband to my wife?

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Can cuckolding be a validation of his love for you?

This won’t be a blog to validate non-monogamy or cuckolding, that is a topic for another day. In this blog I am simply exploring the appeal among men and women for a cuckold type relationship. Cuckolding for those new to the conversation is when a woman has sex with another man outside her primary relationship.… Continue reading Can cuckolding be a validation of his love for you?

About Him · Chastity & Orgasm Denial · Relationships

Men: Tell her exactly how you can be her best partner!

There is a big disconnect in the world of male chastity. Men like to hint to their partner about wanting to be locked up. In many cases the men simply show the woman a link to a cock cage and say something cryptic like “I want you to lock me up”. Ok but why? The… Continue reading Men: Tell her exactly how you can be her best partner!

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Modern Marriage: A wonderful sex life is not optional!

It is no secret that marriages are difficult. In fact; up to 63% of marriages end in divorce according to a recent statistic. That statistic was before the pandemic and I know that Covid has been very difficult for many couples as well. There are many components of a successful marriage such as communication, intimacy,… Continue reading Modern Marriage: A wonderful sex life is not optional!

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What can sperm competition bring to your marriage?

In and of itself, the human mating process is a very simple thing. Boy puts his thing inside girls thing until one or both of their bodies climax. Our society adds some complication to that with religion and societal expectations. Couple that with a layer of homophobia and ever-changing hormones. No wonder the sexual dynamic… Continue reading What can sperm competition bring to your marriage?

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How big of a problem is his masturbation?

Many girlfriends and wives know that their man masturbates but they may not know the extent of the problem. Once or twice a week, what’s the big deal? The problem is the hormonal impact of his masturbation on the quality of your relationship. I found a free app that I’d invite all of you to… Continue reading How big of a problem is his masturbation?

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Be careful fellas, the witches might steal your penis!

This isn’t going to be a blog about a dominatrix permanently locking a man’s penis. This is going to be a blog about history and the male obsession with their penis. In my attempts to understand some of the obsessions and superstitions around our taboo baby making parts, I ran across some gems that I… Continue reading Be careful fellas, the witches might steal your penis!

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A unique approach to cure delayed ejaculation

Male ejaculation is fascinating to me, almost as fascinating as my own orgasms. I’ve written about delayed ejaculation and ejaculation training but it might be time for another blog about the subject. Each of us have our own preference for how long a guy should last. My preference varies but it is usually around fifteen… Continue reading A unique approach to cure delayed ejaculation

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Body & Self: Is small penis shaming a feminist issue? [XOJane]

In the wake of a recent article about small penis humiliation and similarly themed works from the artist Mare I’ve thought about the body shaming and negative body image associated with this type of play. In a comments thread, @chaste_hubby brought up some similar questions. I ran across an article from the now defunct xojane… Continue reading Body & Self: Is small penis shaming a feminist issue? [XOJane]