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Body & Self: Is small penis shaming a feminist issue? [XOJane]

In the wake of a recent article about small penis humiliation and similarly themed works from the artist Mare I’ve thought about the body shaming and negative body image associated with this type of play. In a comments thread, @chaste_hubby brought up some similar questions. I ran across an article from the now defunct xojane… Continue reading Body & Self: Is small penis shaming a feminist issue? [XOJane]

About Him · Chastity & Orgasm Denial · Non-Monogamy

What is Small Penis Humiliation (SPH)?

I’ve been trying to become more active on my twitter and I’ve come across yet another artist that I love and want to share with you. @burdle does some awesome sketches about chastity and small penis humiliation that really bring out the emotion and the fantasy of this popular fetish. I’ll be sprinkling a few… Continue reading What is Small Penis Humiliation (SPH)?

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Male Chastity: Can sexual frustration make you die sooner?

Well that is a spooky topic for a blog, right? I was trolling for sex articles on science’s website because I am a pervy nerd and came across this gem from 2014. According to this study, the University of Michigan found evidence to suggest that sexual frustration in fruit flies diminishes life expectancy. Now of… Continue reading Male Chastity: Can sexual frustration make you die sooner?

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Modern Marriage: 5 Ways to Flip His Perspective

We all know that negative reinforcement doesn’t work and chastity cages are not meant as a punishment; at least not the way that I recommend using them. You can choose to see it as taking his sexual freedom away or you can opt to see it as liberating him from a negative sexual feedback loop.… Continue reading Modern Marriage: 5 Ways to Flip His Perspective

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Modern Marriage: Using chastity as a tool and not a weapon

In some relationships, the cage is used as a tool to coerce the man to proactively be something or act a certain way. In other relationships the cage can be used as a way to punish the husband or atone for an action or lack of action. One of these is a proactive and positive… Continue reading Modern Marriage: Using chastity as a tool and not a weapon

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New Stay At Home Partner: 10 Tips To Set Relationship Expectations

The stay at home spouse is an increasingly popular role as families adapt to the absence of in-person school. Many men and women are choosing to take a step back from work and focus on the family. As I write this blog, I will do my best to keep it gender neutral since it applies… Continue reading New Stay At Home Partner: 10 Tips To Set Relationship Expectations

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Sex Ratios: What if the global ratio of males and females changed?

The ratio of men and women in the world is remarkably similar with males being only slightly more common than females. In some countries the ratio is slightly higher than others but it doesn’t change much and hasn’t over the course of recorded history. You can read more about the distribution of chromosomes and the… Continue reading Sex Ratios: What if the global ratio of males and females changed?

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Lazy Husband? 5 steps to motivate him to be a better partner

Do you have a husband who is lazy & unmotivated? Are you looking for ways to help regain some excitement in your marriage and in his day to day. Men can be absolutely amazing. Do you remember how he was when you first started dating? He was just like the man he is today but… Continue reading Lazy Husband? 5 steps to motivate him to be a better partner

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Husbands: You are not enough

As I learn more about my sexuality and about how both males and females are wired, I have to question our society’s husband and wife normative. I understand that the world is roughly equal in terms of the ratio of males (50.4%) and females (49.6%). With that ratio, a 1:1 pair bonded ratio makes sense… Continue reading Husbands: You are not enough