In your relationship, one of you likely keeps track of the sex calendar. You know what I mean, the formal or informal calendar that lists the last time you had sex and how many days it has been since you’ve had sex. This is part of the sex barter system where one partner uses time… Continue reading The Sex Calendar
So much of the material that you find on the internet about male submission and female dominance tends to minimize the value of the submissive man. If a man shows his feelings, he is somehow less valuable than a “macho” man. Boys are still taught to suppress their emotions and the boys that show emotions… Continue reading In Defense of Submissive Men
There comes a time where a bit of domestic discipline needs to come into play. Perhaps he is getting resentful, angry, snippy or just not responding to extensions of his lockup time. Here are some ideas to get you started. Grounding This one is pretty obvious, if he is grounded he loses time with his… Continue reading Punishment & Correction
When you deem the timing appropriate, your man will need to be allowed a release. The timing of this is completely up to you but usually ranges between one week to two months. Once you determine timing, you will need to determine how you will let him have his orgasm. I’ll go through each of… Continue reading Sweet Release
If you haven’t read my article entitled taking the reigns and you are new to the concept of a female led relationship I would recommend that you start there. Enforced chastity is the practice of denying sex to someone. This is typically done with the use of a penis cage. Penis cages confine the growth… Continue reading Introduction – What is Chastity?
The concept of bartering involves one party giving something to another party in exchange for something of similar value. As one of the world’s oldest professions, prostitution is the ultimate in sex bartering. In the context of relationships this equates to the bargaining for sex. We’ve all heard it before: I did the dishes and… Continue reading The Sex Barter System
I had a conversation with a friend of mine – she knows all about my love for keeping my fella under lock and key. So far she has shied away from doing anything and her concern was about altering the dynamic of her marriage. If your relationship is working, I fully understand not wanting to… Continue reading Lock Him Up For Date Night
No article here, just an April Fools pic to get your day going.
Aren’t they all? Seriously though. This guy has an unrealistic expectation of sex in this relationship. He may have gotten into a relationship expecting that he would have daily sex with you. He may not have taken into account that you are an actual person that may not be in the mood some of the… Continue reading The Sexually Frustrated Man
We are obviously a sex-positive blog and I found this infographic to be very interesting. I haven’t fact checked all of the points and it doesn’t really have sources but most of them sound right. Enjoy!