The perfect cage would perfectly encapsulate the penis at its most flaccid state without creating discomfort as the penis swells to its erect state. The cage is not a torture device, it is simply to prevent arousal and access to the organ. The cage should also not inhibit cleanliness or urination since those are essential… Continue reading Male Chastity: Selecting the Correct Size For Your Cock Cage
The role of staying home to take care of the household is nothing new and the role itself is gender neutral but traditionally female. After posting my interview with Vikter, a stay at home dad I received more than a few inquiries from both men and women. Men were fascinated by the role and the… Continue reading House Husband: Setting Expectations With a Written Agreement
I just want to wish all of you a very happy 2021. For those who are holders of keys, I wish you the willpower to keep him locked up safely and securely. Remember the benefits of doing without, whether that is children doing without toys this season or those who have lost jobs or family… Continue reading Happy 2021: It Can’t Get Any Worse
Let me set the stage. You are fully clothed and sitting at the table with a glass of your favorite red wine, brightly colored markers and a blank white sheet of paper. Your fella is standing a few feet from you, completely nude facing you with his flaccid penis dangling between his legs. You aren’t… Continue reading Let’s Draw His Penis: An Exercise in Artistry and Sexy Humiliation
I just came across Krystine Kellogg last night and did a binge listen through her entire backlog of podcasts. She is certainly someone that I think each of you will appreciate. Like many of us, she is somewhat new to the world of female led relationships and in her personal life, she and her husband… Continue reading Introducing: Krystine Kellogg
What do you think of when you masturbate? Sometimes I fantasize about an elaborate romantic fantasy usually in black and white like an old movie. Sometimes I imagine an intimate encounter with someone I recognize, sometimes with a past lover and other times with a complete stranger. When I’m short on time or especially determined… Continue reading Masturbation Fantasies: Can Porn Break Our Imagination?
In countless previous blogs, I’ve discussed the merits of separating sex from ejaculation. I’ve received comments that make it seem impossible but it really isn’t that difficult. The problem is getting started and changing what you’ve taken for granted all of these years. Soaking is an interesting concept of inserting a penis into a vagina… Continue reading Soaking: The Dock and Talk Approach
The male orgasm is interesting when I compare it to my own. I can have seven or eight orgasms before I simply feel too exhausted (and sore) to go on. Despite that, my arousal stays generally the same during and after each orgasm even increasing from one to the next. On the male side, the… Continue reading The Male Orgasm is a Finite Resource
Within each of us there are two sides; the female side and the male side. A combination of different feminine and masculine parts to make you the person that you are. A gender balance or a yin yang of sorts. This is normal, this is just fine and neither side is superior to the other.… Continue reading Gender Balance and Understanding: Using Pegging as a Tool
The power of a strong, empowered, and committed woman knows no boundaries. While he is ultimately responsible for himself (she is not his fix or savior), she can be the difference between him having a life of aimless wandering, or a life of purpose. Men require structure, rules, and objectives in order to feel valuable.… Continue reading You Are His Rock
