We’ve exhaustively covered how amazing male chastity is for women. Spoiler; he will be a more caring and attentive lover. For many couples, this is sufficient motivation. We were discussing this in our home yesterday and while Kevin and I love the positive benefits of his behavior in our relationship, Andrew expressed confusion about the… Continue reading What Male Need Does Chastity Satisfy
Wikipedia says that slut-shaming is the practice of criticizing women based upon the sexual expectations of others. I’ve gotten my share of raised eyebrows due to our living situation. In fact the leasing office for our apartment had to get “authorization” to rent a one bedroom to three people when we told them of our… Continue reading What is Slut Shaming and Why is She Such a Slut?
This is a story about TanjaNest, a reader that recently joined the site. Like so many of us, Covid-19 forced some changes on her family. A huge thanks to Tanja for sharing her story. This is all very new to her so feel free to reach out with any praise, questions or support for her.… Continue reading How Coronavirus Changed Our Marriage For The Better
This blog entry isn’t about me, it is paraphrased from a few different blogs that I’ve read. The content reflects things that I’ve heard from personal friends and from LOTS of women who have emailed me over the last year. Although I am not a wife nor a mother I’ll do my best to channel… Continue reading An Affair Made Me a Better Wife and Mother
Like most of you, I enjoy oral sex. I mean, I really enjoy oral sex. Not just receiving but also giving. There are so many nuances to oral sex and it can be about dominance or can be an act of service or submission. I enjoy waking up and feeling a warm mouth on my… Continue reading Oral Pleasures
I’ve hesitated to post anything about our new living situation for the last couple weeks because it is new and I really needed to take some time to let it all sink in. Some of the things that were criticisms initially turned out to be some of the more intriguing nuances of living as three.… Continue reading Then There Were Three
I know this site has quite the international following, especially France. This post is specifically for readers in the USA. Vote. Please get out and vote. I don’t want to get political but I do want to make sure that each and every one of you has an opportunity for your voice to be heard.… Continue reading Vote
People base their self esteem on many different things including their job, material possessions and interpersonal relationships. If their job is going well, they feel good about themselves. If their relationships with friends are going well, they feel good about themselves. For many of us, including myself, sex is an enormous indicator of how I… Continue reading Sexual Contingent Self-Worth
For those of you that haven’t been following the blog religiously for the last few months, I’ll catch you up to speed on the recent developments in my life. Kevin and I met a neighbor named Andrew and we’ve taken quite a liking to him. At this point, I affectionately call him “a boyfriend”. I… Continue reading Moving In
Can you imagine walking into a relationship counselor for couples counseling. Let me set the scene; a strip-mall office, some counseling degrees hanging on the wall, fake ficus trees, fragrant odor of a glade plug in air freshener, leather couch. You get the idea. Now imagine that you and your partner walk into the office,… Continue reading An Introspective: Why do I write what I write?