Chastity & Orgasm Denial · Sexuality

Locktober For Dummies: A Step By Step Guide

Locktober is a fun and sexy challenge for couples to enjoy each year that couples do each year to see how much sex controls their relationship and dabble into the world of male chastity. Locktober is a challenge to put his sex drive aside come together as one. I’ve written several other blogs about this… Continue reading Locktober For Dummies: A Step By Step Guide

About Him · Getting Started · Relationships · Sexuality

How can I be a good husband to my wife?

The fact that you are even asking how you can be a better husband speaks volumes. In this blog you will find conventional wisdom supplemented some unconventional ways to be a better partner. Being the best husband is ultimately about waking up every morning and making a conscious decision to be a wonderful partner. The… Continue reading How can I be a good husband to my wife?

About Her · About Him · Relationships · Sexuality

Can cuckolding be a validation of his love for you?

This won’t be a blog to validate non-monogamy or cuckolding, that is a topic for another day. In this blog I am simply exploring the appeal among men and women for a cuckold type relationship. Cuckolding for those new to the conversation is when a woman has sex with another man outside her primary relationship.… Continue reading Can cuckolding be a validation of his love for you?

Relationships · Sexuality

Is your marriage symbiotic or parasitic?

The world around us is full of mutually beneficial symbiotic relationships! Think of the bee and the flower, barnacles on whales the list goes on and on. Now think of parasitic relationships, fleas on dogs, mosquitos on humans or aphids on plants. When you think of your relationship, which comes to mind? Clearly there is… Continue reading Is your marriage symbiotic or parasitic?

About Her · Chastity & Orgasm Denial · Sexuality

Girls Rule & Boys Drool: How can I be more sexually confident?

Sexual confidence is about one thing, taking control. Once you are in control confidence comes naturally but feeling like you are worthy of taking control is another thing entirely. Let’s start by talking about why your sexual confidence matters. Sexual confidence doesn’t come from being “good in bed” or having a perfect body. Sexual confidence… Continue reading Girls Rule & Boys Drool: How can I be more sexually confident?

About Him · Relationships · Sexuality

How big of a problem is his masturbation?

Many girlfriends and wives know that their man masturbates but they may not know the extent of the problem. Once or twice a week, what’s the big deal? The problem is the hormonal impact of his masturbation on the quality of your relationship. I found a free app that I’d invite all of you to… Continue reading How big of a problem is his masturbation?

Having Fun With It · Medical · Sexuality

Fetish Definitions: I’ve got a philia that you’re gonna like some of these

Paraphilia – The sexual arousal to atypical objects, situations, fantasies, behaviors, or individuals. Objectophilia – Sexual or romantic attraction focused on particular inanimate objects. Mechaphilia/Mechanophilia – Interest/Attraction towards mechanic/technological objects. Agalmatophilia – Sexual attraction to a statue, doll, mannequin or other similar figurative object. Dollification – Wanting to be transformed into a doll. Robot Fetishism (ASFR) – A fetishistic attraction… Continue reading Fetish Definitions: I’ve got a philia that you’re gonna like some of these

About Him · Having Fun With It · Sexuality

Be careful fellas, the witches might steal your penis!

This isn’t going to be a blog about a dominatrix permanently locking a man’s penis. This is going to be a blog about history and the male obsession with their penis. In my attempts to understand some of the obsessions and superstitions around our taboo baby making parts, I ran across some gems that I… Continue reading Be careful fellas, the witches might steal your penis!

About Him · Sexuality

A unique approach to cure delayed ejaculation

Male ejaculation is fascinating to me, almost as fascinating as my own orgasms. I’ve written about delayed ejaculation and ejaculation training but it might be time for another blog about the subject. Each of us have our own preference for how long a guy should last. My preference varies but it is usually around fifteen… Continue reading A unique approach to cure delayed ejaculation

Pegging & Role Reversal · Relationships · Sexuality

What the heck are reverse pegging and fauxing?

We all know that pegging is when a woman penetrates her (typically) male partner with a strap-on. Reverse is the opposite of that with the man wearing the strap-on harness and penetrating the female. Both of these allow the female to experience the pleasure of sexual penetration while the male does not. Both of these… Continue reading What the heck are reverse pegging and fauxing?