About Her · Chastity & Orgasm Denial · Sexuality

Girls Rule & Boys Drool: How can I be more sexually confident?

Sexual confidence is about one thing, taking control. Once you are in control confidence comes naturally but feeling like you are worthy of taking control is another thing entirely. Let’s start by talking about why your sexual confidence matters. Sexual confidence doesn’t come from being “good in bed” or having a perfect body. Sexual confidence… Continue reading Girls Rule & Boys Drool: How can I be more sexually confident?

About Him · Relationships · Sexuality

How big of a problem is his masturbation?

Many girlfriends and wives know that their man masturbates but they may not know the extent of the problem. Once or twice a week, what’s the big deal? The problem is the hormonal impact of his masturbation on the quality of your relationship. I found a free app that I’d invite all of you to… Continue reading How big of a problem is his masturbation?

Having Fun With It · Medical · Sexuality

Fetish Definitions: I’ve got a philia that you’re gonna like some of these

Paraphilia – The sexual arousal to atypical objects, situations, fantasies, behaviors, or individuals. Objectophilia – Sexual or romantic attraction focused on particular inanimate objects. Mechaphilia/Mechanophilia – Interest/Attraction towards mechanic/technological objects. Agalmatophilia – Sexual attraction to a statue, doll, mannequin or other similar figurative object. Dollification – Wanting to be transformed into a doll. Robot Fetishism (ASFR) – A fetishistic attraction… Continue reading Fetish Definitions: I’ve got a philia that you’re gonna like some of these

About Him · Having Fun With It · Sexuality

Be careful fellas, the witches might steal your penis!

This isn’t going to be a blog about a dominatrix permanently locking a man’s penis. This is going to be a blog about history and the male obsession with their penis. In my attempts to understand some of the obsessions and superstitions around our taboo baby making parts, I ran across some gems that I… Continue reading Be careful fellas, the witches might steal your penis!

About Him · Sexuality

A unique approach to cure delayed ejaculation

Male ejaculation is fascinating to me, almost as fascinating as my own orgasms. I’ve written about delayed ejaculation and ejaculation training but it might be time for another blog about the subject. Each of us have our own preference for how long a guy should last. My preference varies but it is usually around fifteen… Continue reading A unique approach to cure delayed ejaculation

Pegging & Role Reversal · Relationships · Sexuality

What the heck are reverse pegging and fauxing?

We all know that pegging is when a woman penetrates her (typically) male partner with a strap-on. Reverse is the opposite of that with the man wearing the strap-on harness and penetrating the female. Both of these allow the female to experience the pleasure of sexual penetration while the male does not. Both of these… Continue reading What the heck are reverse pegging and fauxing?

Medical · Sexuality

Are men more prone to having sexual fetishes than women?

It is true that men report a greater desire or interest in sexual fetishes than women do. Men also report engaging in these types of behaviors more frequently as well. Some of the studies I read indicate that men are three to four times more likely than women to have stressful prenatal environments. Apparently, a… Continue reading Are men more prone to having sexual fetishes than women?

About Him · Sexuality

Body & Self: Is small penis shaming a feminist issue? [XOJane]

In the wake of a recent article about small penis humiliation and similarly themed works from the artist Mare I’ve thought about the body shaming and negative body image associated with this type of play. In a comments thread, @chaste_hubby brought up some similar questions. I ran across an article from the now defunct xojane… Continue reading Body & Self: Is small penis shaming a feminist issue? [XOJane]

About Her · Non-Monogamy · Relationships · Sexuality

Sitting One Out: You Don’t Always Need to Participate

There is a relationship between all emotions but compersion and jealousy have one of the most unique. Jealousy is a beast of an emotion since jealousy in the context of a relationship produces many secondary emotions such as fear, suspicion, rage and humiliation. Compersion on the other hand is joy and empathy in the happiness… Continue reading Sitting One Out: You Don’t Always Need to Participate