Pegging & Role Reversal · Relationships · Sexuality

What the heck are reverse pegging and fauxing?

We all know that pegging is when a woman penetrates her (typically) male partner with a strap-on. Reverse is the opposite of that with the man wearing the strap-on harness and penetrating the female. Both of these allow the female to experience the pleasure of sexual penetration while the male does not. Both of these… Continue reading What the heck are reverse pegging and fauxing?

Medical · Sexuality

Are men more prone to having sexual fetishes than women?

It is true that men report a greater desire or interest in sexual fetishes than women do. Men also report engaging in these types of behaviors more frequently as well. Some of the studies I read indicate that men are three to four times more likely than women to have stressful prenatal environments. Apparently, a… Continue reading Are men more prone to having sexual fetishes than women?

About Him · Sexuality

Body & Self: Is small penis shaming a feminist issue? [XOJane]

In the wake of a recent article about small penis humiliation and similarly themed works from the artist Mare I’ve thought about the body shaming and negative body image associated with this type of play. In a comments thread, @chaste_hubby brought up some similar questions. I ran across an article from the now defunct xojane… Continue reading Body & Self: Is small penis shaming a feminist issue? [XOJane]

About Her · Non-Monogamy · Relationships · Sexuality

Sitting One Out: You Don’t Always Need to Participate

There is a relationship between all emotions but compersion and jealousy have one of the most unique. Jealousy is a beast of an emotion since jealousy in the context of a relationship produces many secondary emotions such as fear, suspicion, rage and humiliation. Compersion on the other hand is joy and empathy in the happiness… Continue reading Sitting One Out: You Don’t Always Need to Participate

Getting Started · Having Fun With It · Sexuality

Soaking: The Dock and Talk Approach

In countless previous blogs, I’ve discussed the merits of separating sex from ejaculation. I’ve received comments that make it seem impossible but it really isn’t that difficult. The problem is getting started and changing what you’ve taken for granted all of these years. Soaking is an interesting concept of inserting a penis into a vagina… Continue reading Soaking: The Dock and Talk Approach

About Her · About Him · Medical · Sexuality

The Male Orgasm is a Finite Resource

The male orgasm is interesting when I compare it to my own. I can have seven or eight orgasms before I simply feel too exhausted (and sore) to go on. Despite that, my arousal stays generally the same during and after each orgasm even increasing from one to the next. On the male side, the… Continue reading The Male Orgasm is a Finite Resource