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New Stay At Home Partner: 10 Tips To Set Relationship Expectations

The stay at home spouse is an increasingly popular role as families adapt to the absence of in-person school. Many men and women are choosing to take a step back from work and focus on the family. As I write this blog, I will do my best to keep it gender neutral since it applies… Continue reading New Stay At Home Partner: 10 Tips To Set Relationship Expectations

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House Husband: Setting Expectations With a Written Agreement

The role of staying home to take care of the household is nothing new and the role itself is gender neutral but traditionally female. After posting my interview with Vikter, a stay at home dad I received more than a few inquiries from both men and women. Men were fascinated by the role and the… Continue reading House Husband: Setting Expectations With a Written Agreement

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Sexualizing Insecurities

I’m writing the draft of this blog on a flight during that strange week between Christmas and New Year. Thankfully the flight is half full and I have the whole row to myself. I don’t think I’d be able to concentrate if I was constantly worried about the wandering eyes of the person beside me.… Continue reading Sexualizing Insecurities

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When do the Training Wheels Come Off?

As you undoubtedly know from reading my site, I successfully use the cage as a behavior modification tool to help him learn to restrict himself to the orgasm schedule that I dictate. Part of me realizes that caging him for the rest of his life isn’t realistic however caging him for weeks or months isn’t… Continue reading When do the Training Wheels Come Off?