Having Fun With It

Pegging Comedy: Videos Jokes and Memes

Due to the popularity of my post about pegging becoming more mainstream in movies and television, I decided to do a post about pegging comedy. Pegging in itself can be dirty and strapping a rubber penis to yourself is admittedly silly. If you are ever in doubt, just strap-up and walk around the bedroom wiggling… Continue reading Pegging Comedy: Videos Jokes and Memes

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Male Chastity: A Recipe For Resentment?

In my relationship, male chastity is a godsend and I preach the benefits from the highest mountaintop. We use it as a tool to keep our relationship exciting, fun, intimate and loving. There is no rule book for chastity and we’ve had some trials and tribulations as Kevin and I have walked this road together.… Continue reading Male Chastity: A Recipe For Resentment?

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The Ideal Penis is… Locked!

The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to your relationship. Ultimately the cage and accompanying key symbolize that the man is willing to hand over control for the very organ that defines him as a man. Handing over control… Continue reading The Ideal Penis is… Locked!

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Communication: The Number System

When your guy is locked up, communication about his state is important. His level of desire and the importance and urgency of ejaculation is first and foremost on his mind. The rules that you establish together most likely prevent him from constantly pestering you about his current condition and his perceived urgency to “get off”.… Continue reading Communication: The Number System

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Having Fun With It: Only Two Players

This is an ongoing story about my life with Kevin, our neighbor Andrew and the new and interesting dynamic that is coming from our new relationship. You can read previous blogs about our story or you can start here. Either way, enjoy! It was a lazy Saturday afternoon, Kevin and I were playing some video… Continue reading Having Fun With It: Only Two Players

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Relationships: Boyfriends for Married Women

This article was written by a guest contributor named MagicalMolly after seeing my ping pong blog. She said that she had a story to tell me that might help me sort things out. After emailing back and forth for a few days, I was able to shove it all together for your reading pleasure. Yet… Continue reading Relationships: Boyfriends for Married Women

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Orgasm Denial: What is a Ruined Orgasm?

I’d first like to thank Ruined-Julie for contributing this post. Full disclosure, Kevin and I tried the ruined orgasm and it didn’t work well for us. Julie’s writing certainly makes me want to give it another try. I did some quick editing but not too much. Thanks again Julie! The “ruined orgasm” is a sexual… Continue reading Orgasm Denial: What is a Ruined Orgasm?