The dictionary defines compersion as: The feeling of joy one has experiencing another’s joy, such as in witnessing a toddler’s joy and feeling joy in response. You can think of compersion as the opposite of envy. The envious response to the above would be feeling envy rather than joy when watching the toddler. Compersion is… Continue reading What is Compersion?
I’ve been thinking about what makes a woman sexually awake and how men respond to her behavior since it differs from societal norms. This isn’t going to be an especially deep blog, I am just writing down some thoughts from a long car trip last week. A friend of mine graduated and I drove back… Continue reading Sexual Awakening & Religion
We’ve been using the cage as a relationship tool for well over a year now. We should have celebrated an anniversary for it. 🎂🎉 What would you call it, cage day? Check out my previous blog when do the training wheels come off for some background or just keep reading and I’ll try and fill… Continue reading The Training Wheels Are Off
In a successful relationship, decisions are shared, money is shared and both parties have an equal say in the relationship and the direction of the couple. So how can this be a thing when you’ve literally got him under lock and key? Why would you want this when you can exert total control over your… Continue reading Successful Relationships are 50/50
Alright maybe men aren’t boring but monogamy can get boring. Our entire lives we are taught that we need to find our prince charming, marry him with some big extravagant wedding and live happily ever after. Our husband should be our best friend and our soulmate. That one man should be our only sexual partner… Continue reading Monogamy is Boring
As you undoubtedly know from reading my site, I successfully use the cage as a behavior modification tool to help him learn to restrict himself to the orgasm schedule that I dictate. Part of me realizes that caging him for the rest of his life isn’t realistic however caging him for weeks or months isn’t… Continue reading When do the Training Wheels Come Off?
Typically men find themselves most attracted to women their age or younger. Women, on the other hand usually find men older than them to be most attractive. The male attraction to younger women may be because younger women have a higher likelihood of reproducing successfully. Women on the other and find established men to be… Continue reading Attraction & Courtship
This isn’t going to be an article about the twisted underworld of chastity, this is about feelings. This is about ensuring that the feelings that you are hoping to enforce with chastity are the ones that you get. If done improperly, chastity can bring feelings of resentment, distrust and anger when that is the opposite… Continue reading The Dark Side of Chastity
If you haven’t read my article entitled taking the reigns and you are new to the concept of a female led relationship I would recommend that you start there. Enforced chastity is the practice of denying sex to someone. This is typically done with the use of a penis cage. Penis cages confine the growth… Continue reading Introduction – What is Chastity?
The concept of bartering involves one party giving something to another party in exchange for something of similar value. As one of the world’s oldest professions, prostitution is the ultimate in sex bartering. In the context of relationships this equates to the bargaining for sex. We’ve all heard it before: I did the dishes and… Continue reading The Sex Barter System