My personal favorite is Desire Riviera Maya in Mexico. This resort is couples only, no singles. It is clothing optional, most people opt for this option — at least some of the time. It’s swinger friendly so if you are a bit discrete you could wear a chastity device - there are many beach beds with curtains, at the pools, the jacuzzi, and the beach. There are theme nights seven days of the week and one of them is always fetish night when you can wear basically anything fetish including chastity devices — it’s not the wildest thing I’ve seen. FYI, Emma and others, there are weeks when there is an exception to the couples only rule and threesomes (guest reservations consisting of three people) are allowed, you have to check dates. For CFNM fans, this place is great, no one is going to look twice at a naked man accompanied by a topless woman. Many of the pool games are sort of CFNM and involve “helicopter” penalties for the men, if they spike the ball during pool volleyball for example. In case anyone is not familiar with the helicopter, it involves a rotating penis. A bit of advice, the key to the helicopter is to bend one knee slightly and then the other to get full rotation.